Thanks for all the updates and the comments!
Me and flu' still cannot think clearly, well I think I can but nothing comes of it that I would like to publish.
Still cannot get over all things ring. Using the ring of a recently deceased spouse rings like well, incest is the word that comes to mind, something too close to be healthy IMHO. Weird, very weird.
And then flipping to the other extreme with a ring that might cost 20.000 .... have we lost the middle ground or what?
I'm not surprised about all his emotions around the recent health scare (or any health scare for that matter) bowel cancer is a silent killer that may go unnoticed until it is too late.
As for all things cess pit, my pet issue, I'd have expected him to know how the entire system works, like the septic tank being an overflow or not. WHY won't they tell us?? :gaah:
But the story of IS and HB checking the level of the pit is ludicrous.
If you have an aversion to sewage PLUS a lot of money, you order the pit to be emptied every six weeks or six months if it pleases you, and every week if you are slightly mad.... but you can do whatever you like. It is a free world, the man with the tank will come around, and you are not dependent at all on for instance the system of garbage collection by the local council.
Checking the level in the pit ... no way.