My heart goes out to Paul Ansell and all the family of course. So very hard to even think of the right words to say to children - (or any aged children in the family) - that their mummy will no longer be with them in their life. More so of course PA and the family are in the deepest of grief themselves at this time.
I personally have been put into that position, as I can imagine some on WS have sadly lost a loved one. My children were 10 and 12 years old at the time their daddy sadly lost his life in a car crash.
I did my best to choose the best way I could to tell my children, they of course were devastated. I can still remember to this day, now 15 years ago, the look on their faces of utter disbelief and a look from them both that I had never seen before on anyone's face.
But I never had all what Paul and his family were put through (the 3 weeks of waiting to find out where NB was) also all what went on via the media, wicked online messages etc.
All I can hope for, and sure all who care will feel the same, is every possible support can be given to Paul, their two young girls and all their families to see them through each day the best that can be.