Why lie with everything going on about guns in schools? I hope that call wasn’t ignored!Maybe the gun was in the backpack or the child's possession, but the person who says they searched for it- didn't. MOO
Why lie with everything going on about guns in schools? I hope that call wasn’t ignored!Maybe the gun was in the backpack or the child's possession, but the person who says they searched for it- didn't. MOO
The problem with "emotionally disturbed" children, is that if the child meets the eligibility for an IEP, the school can't send the child to a higher level of care, ie, inpatient, until either there is enough data or severe manifestation of inappropriate behavior to send him to "behavior school". It takes an incident like this or injuring students to justify it.
The gun should never have been in the house for a child to access. If I lived in a country where kids bags are searched for weapons I’d have my kids out of school. It is not normal. It should not happen. Something is very very wrong that this keeps happening and nothing changes.
They are required to report illegal activities, threats, assault and more. I posted links up thread. After an incident in Northern VA, a very specific law was passed making it a requirement, as of July 2022.Are public school officials required to report student weapon searches to law enforcement?
From a previously posted article, and bolded by me:Are public school officials required to report student weapon searches to law enforcement?
I grew up in a neighborhood that had (and still does) a facility for "emotionally disturbed children" that opened in the 1960s. The higher-functioning kids went to school with us, and a lot of the time, we couldn't tell that was where they were from until they told us. Most of them had been in and out of the foster care system since birth, although there are two who really stand out (this was in the 1970s) who were almost certainly on the autistic spectrum.The problem with "emotionally disturbed" children, is that if the child meets the eligibility for an IEP, the school can't send the child to a higher level of care, ie, inpatient, until either there is enough data or severe manifestation of inappropriate behavior to send him to "behavior school". It takes an incident like this or injuring students to justify it.
30 years ago, when my friend was a foster care caseworker, she could never get over how much those little kids always knew about (edited) X-rated things, sex toys, and drug paraphernalia, and that was BEFORE the Internet was in common use! I can't even imagine what it's like now... a 4 year old can’t even spell words to type internet searches. I have a 7 year old boy and he is very smart. He plays video games and has a tablet and has a high level of understanding how to operate electronics. And although he can spell, even he wouldn’t know how to get online and cruise the internet. You’re exactly right everything at that young of an age is shown and taught. And with all due respect to the poster you responded to.. toddlers aren’t manipulative. The toddler in your family isn’t manipulative and bad. Toddlers, children all need structure, consistency and love. Even the way you allow your child to have emotions and feel safe in expressing those emotions.To feel safe, to be shown patience. When those things aren’t provided kids usually push boundaries which can look like “just being bad”. This case hurts my heart. For the teacher, the other kids who saw this happen, their parents, everyone in the schools community, and this 6 year old boy. Who was probably dealing with a feeling he had the way he sees the adults around him deal with feelings, physically rather than with his words, aggressively and violently.
Many of them are smarter than you might think. Kids know how to tap the microphone button and speak what they want to search. moo.. a 4 year old can’t even spell words to type internet searches. I have a 7 year old boy and he is very smart. He plays video games and has a tablet and has a high level of understanding how to operate electronics. And although he can spell, even he wouldn’t know how to get online and cruise the internet. You’re exactly right everything at that young of an age is shown and taught. And with all due respect to the poster you responded to.. toddlers aren’t manipulative. The toddler in your family isn’t manipulative and bad. Toddlers, children all need structure, consistency and love. Even the way you allow your child to have emotions and feel safe in expressing those emotions.To feel safe, to be shown patience. When those things aren’t provided kids usually push boundaries which can look like “just being bad”. This case hurts my heart. For the teacher, the other kids who saw this happen, their parents, everyone in the schools community, and this 6 year old boy. Who was probably dealing with a feeling he had the way he sees the adults around him deal with feelings, physically rather than with his words, aggressively and violently.
This is precisely what happened in the case of Ethan Crumbley at Oxford High School in Oakland County, MI. Ethan and his parents were actually sitting in an office with school administrator/s and no one asked to search the boy's backpack that was right there with him! Had school personnel (or Ethan's parents) searched his backpack, the gun would have been discovered, and four students' lives would have been spared.The police should have been notified by the school admin immediately; the child should have been held in the office with proper supervision. The backpack, coat, and boots should have been in a separate secure area until a real police officer arrived to make a safe, properly documented, and video-recorded search. This would have included a search of any other item that could conceal a weapon and the general area accessible to the child in case he stashed it. Most schools have a school resource officer ( a regular cop, not a security person) assigned to cover their campus. Some SROs may cover more than one campus but should have been readily available for this type of issue. MOO
There is an epidemic of school administrators whose regular policy is NOT to call the police if they think they can handle a situation without it becoming public knowledge. I've seen it in my city on numerous occasions over the years, and we read about it when it happens elsewhere. MOO
Just like in any position of authority, there will always be bad apples that let it go to their heads. We don't need that type in school administration or any other profession that holds our children's lives in their hands. MOO