Hope32
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I am in recovery and some how managed to take my birth control and thankfully never found myself loaded and knocked up. I don't know if I'd call that scientific proof of birth control be more or less effective. But I would like to add my two cents: I do have a little experience and have spent many years where most of my friends were addicts in active addiction. Many of these junkie friends were junkie parents. Some were good parents, that is when they were attentive. All were neglectful, how could they not be. Some, not many were very neglectful. Should any active addict have children, I don't think so. There were times I probably shouldn't have had custody of my dogs. But the evil that causes a person to do evil things to children isn't because that person is on drugs. Most likely those people are on drugs due to the evil that resides in them. Addiction sucks, it's hell and sure I could have choose not to party in highschool, but by the time I was doing what junkies do I was way past choosing. I guess what I'm saying here is not all addicts kill kids. Most of them are amazing human beings. Addiction sucks.
Thanks for the insight. I was just trying to give a possible explanation as to why they continue to have kids, but your are exactly correct. Not all addicts kill kids because of drugs. Often people do turn to drugs to escape. I was just kind of thinking out loud i suppose as well. Like I said I have no idea about drugs affecting birth control just a thought that popped in my head. I just hope this girl is found safe and has a better second half of life or that she is finally free from abuse and neglect and that her mother gets closure of some form. She will forever be beating herself up for putting her with CR I am sure no matter the outcome.