yeah,, but remember there are older college students too (in their 30's & sometimes beyond), and plenty of older non-students who go to the same bars as the co-eds. in a situation like this,, there is no way you can discern what someone is up to, if he blends in pretty well as this guy did. for all we know, michelle may have had a conversation with him before and felt that she "knew" him.
all we can do is try to convince young people to be more & more paranoid, as it can save your life. i guess we just have to assume that every guy we see is a potential murderer. it needs to be drilled into young womens' heads over and over,, do NOT wander off with some strange man or get into his car. DON'T get separated from your friends, especially at night. keep in touch at all times, and let them know where you're going!! don't be secretive about stuff, even if it's some guy you're interested in.
i can't even count how many stories i've heard recently about groups of college students saying "oh,, they just wandered off with someone, we thought everything was fine and we'd just see them tomorrow".... HELLO!! especially if your friend has been drinking,, THEY ARE AT RISK. then again, when everyone's been drinking, then everyone's judgement is clouded.
so........ stay together, keep in touch, and watch your friends-- don't let one of them wander off alone, especially a female, &/or drunk.
maybe it's time for college campuses to have a MANDATORY self-defense and safety awareness meeting for all students, at the beginning of each semester, and post info around the campus about this and also alcohol education. why not??
if she never met him before,, he must have said something to her to make her go off with him so easily. maybe he lied & said he was a student. or, he could have said "hey a girl like you shouldn't be out here walking alone,, let me walk you back." just trying to get inide the guy's mind here, to learn the tactics (not that i'd want to be there!)
i remember a dateline (or some similar investigative show) a few years back about a street study that was done by some folks in a new england town (Vt or NH i believe)... where a woman with a microphone approached college girls saying "hey we're doing a TV ad for so&so ice cream company, can you just come over here & get on camera for a minute? just come over here, OK,, now just step inside this van for a minute, and look at the camera & say,"i like ice cream".. and one by one, even though most were kind of wary & confused, all of them did it anyway (as i remember). the point was how naive and trusting young women are, and how easily they can be abducted.
but then again, you hate to think that everyone out there is a potential psycho. sad, that now that really IS what we have to think.