Gosh - great posts, everyone: these last 5 or 6 pages is like reading a continuing gripping true-life story. I'm addicted to this background...
Philamena: :clap: I feel you captured the bottom line right here:
IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THE PREDATOR WAS A TEEN OR AN ADULT OR A FRIGGIN BABY SITTER.....SINCE she was only 13 when this happened, a SEXUAL PREDATOR ABUSED HER.
WHY don't you understand that?
THERE WILL NEVER, EVER BE AN EXCUSE OR REASON TO ACCEPT SEXUAL ABUSE OF A CHILD THAT IS A MINOR.
There is a reason you use such dogged determination when taking up for sexual predators. I find that very scary.
Linask: The factual logic and completely transparent insight of your posts screams 'total understanding'. To me, your posts offer calm and uncomplaining - yet very bravely experienced insight re the psyche / affects of all of this. More power to you esp thru all you've experienced!
I certainly don't mean to patronize.
Flowerchild & Leila: That was excellent reading - wow ... Flower's detailed "tell it like it is" posts and Leila's concise fact-sheet, earlier on.
Thank you. Things that defy human understanding are (despite still shockingly unbelievable to me) have been given (tragic) form and shape in all of this. My word...
mysteriew: Good lord, to me your commentary and keeping up the debate with such passion to breakthrough (perceived, contrite or totally unintentional) barriers forces me to read responses!!
LionRun - agreed with this post of yours
There are some foster homes in Texas and other states where sexual, physical, and emotional abuse occur. I agree. But, that is not the case with most foster homes. Many children have a chance in the foster care system. I believe there is a 100% chance that any child raised within the FLDS compound will suffer at least one type of abuse. Some may never heal.
and your more recent comment:
And, I hope that the leaders of that cult face justice head on.
Ca-Sun: Again, feel I'm on your same page with this:
FLDS is nothing more than a cult, run by power hungry pedophiles. IMO
Glow: (hee hee, just had to make your color 'glow', lol...). While your passion and determination is very clear, I'm not sure of where the
sense of loss or let down is that you clearly have (please note, just my perception).
Is it with FLDS, CPS, ACLU, LE, humanity, religion, the media reports, the "invasion" into lives we should not worry about or is it babies and toddlers taken from nursing / weaning / natural moms? Is it about breaking up families? Is it that the outside world is breaking into places they shouldn't go (in your opinion - just as this is my confusion). While I don't think you're "wrong", I just don't grip the fault-line here, that's all. Babies are taken from HIV mothers to thwart the dangers of infected breast-milk; ditto drug addicts - I once watched a horrific documentary on the result of drug-addicted babies. This because of the dangerous and immoral acts of the mothers.
Does it TRULY (not W/S's
truly - great comments there, too, btw...) not bother you that the world has rapidly advanced in our human behaviors regarding child-protection and nurturing? Please forgive me here, because I do not make light of this illness ... but as in early stages Alzheimers somehow and astonishingly-so comes to my mind. An illness I witnessed
fairly close to home. The blankness; the withdrawal; the repeated statements; the lack of instant emotive responses in the women. And then, yes, pedophilia strikes me loud and clear, here. Gang-style and horrific. When a female becomes fertile, that's not (in many opinions) OK to intercept. It's called puberty: a gentle, beautiful inner awakening to be regarded as sacred and to be kept pristine until *all other natural, physical, mental, spiritual and social factors* have grown accustomed to God's aging process. To be de-frocked, by force and by the CHOICES of an "awarded" male is just too horrendous to happen once, let alone en-masse and as a no-nonsense "given". What a shuddering-ly bleak future to anticipate as as a beautiful ... LITTLE GIRL.
Human machines. God forgive me, but I think of The Boys from Brazil ... or other equally horrific ordeals our species has subjected its populations to. And no, I'm not gunning for nazism ... think about female circumcision; forced prostitution; rent-boys and,sadly, much more.
All of these horrific acts are done for money, power and control. The FLDS are no different, despite there being, IMO, a group of women to turn to "afterwards". But what advice and comfort is given when a young girl's body, spirit, mind and understanding is snatched and her youth destroyed by some prowling male as if this is a cattle-sale? They are simply and succinctly advised to "Stay Sweet". Oh my God...
No. NOOO! This will be a traumatic experience and clearly the US, CPS (incl medical & legal) and all other highly trained and skilled people & mechanisms have been mobilized to ensure the best outcome and a positive future for these kids. Think of the baby-boys - some may be tossed out as "lost-boys". It's far better to save these little-ones earlier rather than .... later. These (rescued) children won't be tossed out or touched, one prays - but it'll be difficult, sure. It will, one hopes, literally .... begin the end. The end of a "chain factory to go out and selectively conquer, program, multiply and then totally worship just one man's ideals and cause here on God's earth".
Floh said it best pages-back, unquoted as I cannot find the page, lol!!:
Glow's approach won't change...
Sorry so long - such immense reading / input. Congrats to all :clap: :clap: :clap:
froggierintexas: Well, isn't your comment so true! Just saw your congratulatory post as I finished this. AGREED 100% :clap:
There are just too many to caption all. This thread, topic has been one of the most informative, thought-provoking and inspiring in a long, long time. Brilliant!
Said my piece for the next 10 pages, lol
(again, so sorry about length!!! It's all your faults)
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"Proud to be a W/S-er!!!"