If this is all you have left to question about BDI, SS, I'll try to wrap it up for you (even though I don't really think it will make a difference in your opinion). There are obviously differences in opinion even within BDI theories. When anyone tries to address their reason for objecting (as you do often), they assume each BDI thinks the same as all others. I'll only address my own ideas.
I think Burke is responsible for the sexual assault, the head blow, and the unintentional strangulation. All subsequent actions were done by the parents. I do NOT believe that ANYONE intentionally pulled the cord tight with the intent to cause harm to JonBenet, to "finish her off", or to "end her suffering". I believe (if you've bothered reading any of my posts) that JonBenet was already dead when John and Patsy found her in the basement. I imagine that John told both his wife and his son what to do. Burke's job was to get out of the way and not interfere with what was being done to "protect" him. Every detail of what would be done (and the reason for it) was not explained to him. When all CS changes were done, John told Patsy to call 911. I believe Burke was probably "clinging" to his mom from fear of his dad's wrath when the 911 call was made. He was scared when they said they were calling 911. He asked his mom why they were calling 911. She was answering him when the call was answered and she said, "Hon', we need 'em...", then realized the call had been answered and said, "POLICE!" (I've heard these words on the 911 recording myself.) Don't try and deny that Burke was awake and was instead sleeping soundly during all this, because both he and his parents have admitted and confirmed that he was awake when the call was made. His (or some young male's) voice was heard on the BPD enhanced recording according to investigators who have heard the recording. The recording that was released to the public has the end erased, but some of the words that have been reported are still audible. Patsy can be be heard saying, "Help me, Jesus; help me, Jesus." There are differing versions of what else was heard by investigators, but the most reliable (IMO) is that Burke asked, "What did you find?" John answers (sternly), "We're not speaking to you." To which Burke responds, "But what DID you find?" With the erasure, all that we can hear is, "What did you..." so I don't doubt that this version is correct.
So you ask why would he ask that question. The answer is simple: He didn't know anything about the "ransom note" that he just heard his mother report to 911 (the police) that they had "found". He (and John) thought the phone had been hung up and they were free to talk. When he thought his mother was off the phone, did he ask about his sister? Did he ask if she was okay? Did he ask where she was? Did he ask about the police coming to their house? No. He asked what his mother had "found". John didn't want to have to answer to him, so he said, "We're not speaking to you."
I don't for a moment think Burke was a monster, as you have in the past suggested would be the case if he was responsible for any of this. And like you, I see Burke as a victim more than anything else. He was NOT responsible for his actions. He was, after all, a child himself. I put all ultimate blame on his parents. The situation they created caused this. But even with that said, I still have sympathy for them. I know what they were going through prior to that night, and they made some very bad choices. Who's to say whether any of us would have done anything differently if we were in their shoes. We can say we would -- but do we really know without actually being there?
To sum up my belief, I'll tell you that there was no "murder". No one intentionally strangled that innocent child to end her life. She died as a result of a bad environment, bad individual choices, and bad circumstances that caused her death.
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BBM: ITA. I reckon this along with BR returning to bed faking being asleep tells you all three R's colluded in the death and staging of JonBenet.
Why do you think BR whacked JonBenet on the head, would he not be compounding any, then current, problems?
The sexual assault can be explained away as can the ligature asphyxiation, but the head blow, that escapes me.
Why did the parents not dial 911 for medical assistance, they must have known JonBenet was alive?
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