BBM: Do you really think so?
(disclaimer: dialogue is paraphrased)
Weird how two people can see the exact same thing and come to opposite opinions. I think she was thrown off her game plan. With his opening questions when he says "you have a Bachelors degree, correct" and immediately you see her spine stiffen. She corrects him and says "NO, I have a Masters" and Juan says "WELLLLL (love his wells) you had to get a bachelors first, right?"
FIRST he asks her what year she got her Bachelors. "1969" (historically speaking after the Summer of Love and the beginning of the ME Generation; but I digress); then he asks "What year did you get your Masters?" and she responds "1980" (The Eighties: Ronald Reagan, Madonna, Aids Awareness, Gold Chains & Designer Jeans, Top Gun, Belin Wall; but I digress).
His questions were tactical in that they highlighted the many years since she got her degrees and exposed a sore point, as in "Hello expert witness with No PhD, let's talk about...oh I don't know...let me think...oooh how about "Was Snow White an Abused Woman?"
The result was he put her on the defensive right from the start, Juan knew exactly what he was doing. IMO, ALv became rattled rather quickly. I don't think she thinks she won, I think feels she frightened about what's coming her way. She has no sympathy from me, tho.
Early in the week I posted my thoughts on how I felt Juan should approach his cross; I thought he should be very FIRM with ALv BUT not condescending. So glad he listens to unsolicited advise from sleuthers on the internet machine. LOL.
Honestly tho, I think he was taking his cues from her, if she answered his questions properly (w/o the head games) he would have taken a different tact. In any case, he got what he wanted but she is the one that decided how it was going to play out for the rest of the cross.