I too got a feeling AB might have been very naive, easily manipulated by EB?? I also wondered if AB worked away from home for periods of time. Seems Zahra was isolated, yet, they all lived together. What could someone tell me that would not have me spend time with my child after each working day? Nothing, I'd want to talk to her to see how her day went...I wish we knew more about AB's personality, his work habits, his education and such.
Did he entrust this woman with his child and blinded by her (love)manipulations? I can't understand knowing what this child has been through that he would look away at physical abuse, did he not see Zahra daily? I also wonder why he never checked on Zahra as that fire was happening? How could he just ignore his flesh and blood? What hold did EB have on him that he could just take what EB tells him with a grain of salt? JMHO
I don't know what's happened to society, where the moral degradation takes place as it does today. Violence is so rampant, what happened that changed so drastically??? Why does it seem more and more children are murdered by their own family or significant other. What happened that a life can be taken so easily....JMHO]]
I think thats hitting it on the head....he might have left EB to raise Zahra. I have people i work with who believe it's a woman's job to raise the children, it's the mans to go out and provide.
My feeling is with this family that AB was 'distanced' from Zahra. He probably left much to EB, and my belief was that he felt the 'complaining' going on between them, was probably part of what happens to kids with step-parents.
I bet he regets ever coming here. I'm sure that he thought it would be a lot different than it was. I wouldn't be surprised if he felt trapped, and perhaps was making plans to go, which is why EB contacted that other fellow from England. Perhaps she sensed that things were falling apart.
I suspect this child had no real medical care here....which is disturbing and worrying. I wonder that dad did not consider that this was a little girl who's health issues might be ongoing? It appears he didn't. But again, perhaps he thought EB would see to this. We just don't know what she told him.
This is a good example of a breakdown of 'family'. I believe that if AB had remained in Australia, even with EB, this wouldn't have happened.