I don't think anyone is trashing or trying to ruin a child's reputation. I, for one, am insulted that this entire incident was painted as a little boy being shot in cold blood by a criminal - and painted by pictures that were not at all indicative of who either of them were the day this tragedy happened.
Why is it ok to trash George Zimmerman for things that happened when he was 17 or 18? Thread after thread he was trashed due to a report from an unreliable online publication.
The facts, as we know them - and it's not right to pick and choose LE statements to fit a theory - Trayvon Martin jumped George Zimmerman, saw his gun, and told him he was going to die. Zimmerman managed to get his gun and he shot Trayvon.
Should GZ have been watching Trayvon, yes, he should have IMO. Should Trayvon have run? Sure, if GZ scared him, but he should have run home, IMO.
The teens you describe are probably from an entirely different world than Trayvon Martin. Trayvon was from
Miami Gardens, Florida. A rough area where teenagers, 17 and under, are killed at alarming rates. Survival becomes a way of life for them - cars and girls are secondary.
Maybe Trayvon ran because that is what he would do back home where his life might well have been in danger because teens are known to be the culprits of record numbers of murders and thefts. GZ wasn't in Miami Gardens where it wouldn't be unusual to see a 17 year old to run, so TM's behavior caused even more suspicion. GZ lived in a gated community of houses where everyone knew everyone - people watch out for each other.... they don't run from each other. Neither GZ or TM was right or wrong in their reactions - both, IMO, were running on instinct and fear, based on what they knew.
Trayvon was suspended from school for 10 days and sent to his dad's house so he couldn't have fun with his friends. IMO, that meant "get in trouble" while his mother was at work. I am basing my opinion on the fact that his dad had no problem with Trayvon going to the movies with his cousin the same night he arrived, even though he wasn't sure and Trayvon never came home. His dad didn't try to find Trayvon aside from calling his phone a couple of times. He didn't call the cousin. Parents worry about their "children". Something isn't right - and it's ALL relevant. Kids that aren't supervised get into trouble all the time.
GZ didn't chase Trayvon down with his gun pulled. He didn't shoot him in cold blood. This statement, made over and over again is so without factual merit, it is insulting, especially when I'm told to accept it without question or I'm being judgmental and trashing a child. This isn't that cut and dried. IMO.
JMO