You are correct and I'm one of them. However in order to stop the cycle you have to completely remove yourself from the source of the dysfunction. In my case I was raised by my grandparents so I was removed from the situation at a certain age. LA has removed himself but he is absolutely no better than Casey. Cindy runs that roost and she's like a black hole that sucks the sanity out of the house among other things. I highly doubt, that had Caylee lived into adulthood she would have been able to get out of that "black hole". Three of the A's (CA, LA, & CMA) have shown various degrees of sociopathic tendencies. In my humble opinion, Caylee would NOT have had an ideal childhood. And I also believe that had Caylee not been killed at the age of 2 she would have been later in life and by Casey.
And on Casey's current path to find a man, literally any man to get out of the Anthony home I have a feeling Caylee would have soon been a victim of abuse by a warped signgificant other.
I do agree, what Caylee deserved was a BETTER family altogether. And certainly not to be murdered. But when I look to the alturnative she had here on Earth I can't help but think she's with the best possible family now, God. And that's the only way I can go to sleep at night when I think of this case.