logicalgirl
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WildChild,
Great post. Cindy has to feel incredibly guilty especially if there had been a fight the night before. The neighbor said Casey was throwing the curse words left and right.
I don't know why Cindy never tried to take the child before this rather than live that lie. All she had to do with social services was proved that Casey has no income, is stealing from family members, using credit cards and cannot provide for Caylee and they would have at least given her temporary guardianship and Casey would not have gotten her back for a while. She could have had her arrested for forging the deposit slip and stealing from her grandfather's account and that would have went a log way towards giving Cindy control. And Cindy most definitely could have kept tabs on Casey to find out what she was up to - would have cost her a lot less in the long run. Instead she let Casey use and abuse the situation to steal and stay out late and she eventually killed the child anyway.
If Cindy admits Casey did it, she has to say she had a big part in this in not taking control sooner. I believe Rick (her brother) told her it was her fault for not taking Casey to task sooner. Did you ever listen to his interview. With all due respect it is a riot at times.
Its incredible how they let Casey run everything into the ground. And if Cindy had taken control of the situation instead of threatening it, she would have seen the coward that Casey is. Instead she let her destroy the family.
Honestly? I think Cindy wanted to believe ICA would finally straighten out if she just kept pushing her. I think Cindy was bone tired of all the problems and wanted to enjoy being a grandparent, not start all over being the parent to a small child again. I think she believed if ICA made an effort, their life could be so good. I think each time ICA's behavior accelerated, Cindy tried harder to "make it work" and each time she got more tired and desperate to solve the situation, while realizing she has no control at all.
I'm not saying I think what Cindy did was right, but in some way, I recognize that desperation about what seems to be a repetitive unsolvable problem.