I have to say, I think JB just digs that hole as deep as he can get it. I hope no one takes this as a racist statement, because it really is not at all and isn't meant to be negative in any way, but seriously, if I was someone who appears to think that I am so entitled to everything in the world just at the bat of my eyes, the last people that I would want judging me is a group of older black women who have had a rough life. My ex mother in law lived in a housing area that was paid for by the state and those older black women believed it takes a village and had no problem disciplining someone else's child or telling someone what they were not doing right. And it wasn't something that started issues, it was accepted, because everyone knew they were right. They will most likely not be anti DP and will likely be people with children that they are still taking care of despite their hard times. And I bet they would LOVE to be put up in a hotel and fed regularly and go on trips. There will be little "hardship" claims for these people. Why did she keep this guy around?