Frigga
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SH was being pointed to as a murderer.
Sadly, I agree with you.
SH was being pointed to as a murderer.
SH was being pointed to as a murderer.
Everyone was a suspect at that time.
Respectfully, "I won't comment but....." is a comment - even if it is undercover. Let's not start attacking victims or victims families as I'm sure the only interest they had under very stressful circumstances was to get to the truth. I have said before and am going to repeat that I know first hand that Teresa had a lot of love for Sandra and her family. Due to the length of time that Teresa worked with Sandra, her name came up in many conversations. The best comparison that I can give is that I have direct family members that I love with all of my heart. That doesn't mean that I would let them work for me or that they live their life the way I would live my life. I also have commented on these family members to my closest friends and some relatives. That is real life. Teresa would never willingly hurt Sandra or her family directly and although unhappy with different issues related to work, I still feel VERY confident saying that Teresa cared for Sandra and her family. Sometimes working relationships have a shelf life - that doesn't change care or concern for either party (usually). Thank you.
AmazonRain, do you have any opinion(s) on weather or not LS contributed to the negative feelings Teresa was having towards SH or do you think it was more about what you stated in your previous post?
If you can answer, do you think Mark was having an affair? Thanks for any insight you feel you are able to share.
ETA What can we do specifically- at home- to help focus the direction of our sleuthing efforts?
I second that - Dr. Sievers personally told me her feelings towards SH and her family. She cared very deeply for all of them.
. . . As to Mark having an affair, I believe Mark had many affairs. Many. As I have said in the past, I have witnessed MS first hand disrespecting his marriage. I think we are going to see quite a bit (eventually) that points to Mark's overtures and actions towards many women - even women that knew Teresa. We have all read MS described as a flirt by people who know him - I know he was more than a flirt. The description that KW gave (Our Mother's Home) of a man who would say inappropriate things (in my opinion to see if the woman took the bait), that is Mark. If the woman didn't take the bait he would claim he was just playing or joking etc.... If I'm being perfectly honest, within a certain age range I believe Mark would hit on just about any woman. I'm not being sarcastic - I really believe that. . . . coming soon, I hope everyone keeps up the great work. I am confident that LE is getting some information from this forum - there are some great sleuthers, hard works, and really brilliant minds on here.
Amazon Rain - thank you so much for your insight into your dear friend TS . I was skeptical about the comment that MS made about swinging because I was in a relationship with a narcissist that also claimed we were swingers, however, the only thing swinging was his own hips, much like MS. Narcissists do not treasure or respect any relationship that they are in either. It breaks my heart thinking that TS was not respected by MS in the way that she should have been . After listening to the interview of FP, I couldn't help but think that MS should've spent more time with him, and he might have learned how to treasure, respect and love his wife the way FP does his own wife. A narcissist however, would not see any of that because they have their own agenda, they use people and ultimately it's all about me, me, me.As to Mark having an affair, I believe Mark had many affairs. Many. As I have said in the past, I have witnessed MS first hand disrespecting his marriage. I think we are going to see quite a bit (eventually) that points to Mark's overtures and actions towards many women - even women that knew Teresa. We have all read MS described as a flirt by people who know him - I know he was more than a flirt. The description that KW gave (Our Mother's Home) of a man who would say inappropriate things (in my opinion to see if the woman took the bait), that is Mark. If the woman didn't take the bait he would claim he was just playing or joking etc.... If I'm being perfectly honest, within a certain age range I believe Mark would hit on just about any woman. I'm not being sarcastic - I really believe that.
Thanks for asking the sleuthing question. There is another doc dump coming soon, I hope everyone keeps up the great work. I am confident that LE is getting some information from this forum - there are some great sleuthers, hard works, and really brilliant minds on here.
AL when asked if Mark was having affairs said to the Detective NO!
Seems she felt he had no time.
He was home with the girls!
TS was the one to travel and not home a lot.
So if he was having these affairs where are these women?
don't you think some would have crawled out of the woodwork?
Many men are flirts it dosent mean they have affairs!
I'm not saying he did or he didn't.
But we have not heard in any of these interviews by LE of any affairs By MS or TS.
I'm sure LE knows the whos and wheres and whens.
If they did I don't think they shared that information.
Id just like to hear LE say it.
AL when asked if Mark was having affairs said to the Detective NO!
Seems she felt he had no time.
He was home with the girls!
TS was the one to travel and not home a lot.
So if he was having these affairs where are these women?
don't you think some would have crawled out of the woodwork?
Many men are flirts it dosent mean they have affairs!
I'm not saying he did or he didn't.
But we have not heard in any of these interviews by LE of any affairs By MS or TS.
I'm sure LE knows the whos and wheres and whens.
If they did I don't think they shared that information.
Id just like to hear LE say it.
No way would they be crawling out of the woodwork! Maybe crawling INside the woodwork.
They are more than likely horrified that what they have done in their personal/private life will be on display for the world to know/see. I'll bet they are scared to death!!
Of course AL wouldn't know if he had affairs, that's something he surely wouldn't tell or even want his own family to know, much less TS's family!
I don't think most men would want anyone to know they are having affairs.
The man had plenty of free time. He did his office "work" at night. I remember when we were discussing the security alarm system. It showed it was unarmed and then rearmed a couple of times the night BEFORE the family went to Connecticut. It was activated again at very late/early am off the wall time, and I suspected right then that MS was just getting back home from his "night" job.
MOO ~
Where there is a will, there is a way.
Girls could have been left home while daddy 'ran to the store'for groceries (an example). That 'run' could have been 2 hours long, girls could be playing video games and could have been told not to tell mommy or mom could have thought that was okay for girls to be left alone while dad got food. IMO, I do not think he would go out though when housekeeper, chef, or other hires were there because they could then testify he left the girls alone. Neighbors would not pay attention at that time. IMO, it was done on the sly. LE knows and is holding this info until the right time.
I agree. When I heard that about him doing "office work" at night I was like "pffttttt." No way. His night job was something else entirely.
And, MOO, but you're not going to hear about this, if Mark was having affairs, and it looks like he definitely was, per LE, they (LE) are not going to show their hand and advertise about it. And the women, don't you think they'd be a little embarrassed, horrified, not wanting to tell anyone they had anything to do with someone who likely had his wife murdered? I mean I would think they'd also be afraid that they could be in the envelope of suspicion, not that I think they are but...
I could be wrong, JMO, and all that jazz.