Several people have stated that Brittney dropped out of school in 8th grade. I find this highly unlikely however as I was checking her "milkmall" MySpace page for whatever clues I could find (of course 99% of the page is on lockdown but under the blogs section in a post entitled "best friends" she references how her and two friends, initials R and C were suspended from school in October of 2008. That would make her age 16 at the time. I don't know if this has any point but just throwing it out there. She is still in my heart and prayers every night and I wish with all my heart that she is off the grid alive, safe, and fed.
Somewhat OT- living literally a block from the French Quarter I have met girls who have "disappeared" from abusive families and marriages and haven't seen or spoken to loved ones in years. Many of the lower end strip clubs/bars do not require ID or a SS card (I have metmobviouslynunderaged dancers and had it confirmed to me) and as the girls are paid in cash they do not need bank accounts. There are smaller motels (my best description would be boarding houses) for these girls that accept $200/300 a week for these girls and traveling dancers and migrant type Bourbon St workers to stay- no credit/background check, ID, or lease required. They are within walking distance to the clubs and usually owned by them. One of the sleaziest clubs even has bunk beds for the girls to stay and almost all strip clubs have shower/washing facilities. When I danced for a few months 8 years ago they also had even a sauna, tanning beds, a stylist, a lingerie shop for outfits, and a lounge upstairs!(but I danced at the highest end club where lap dances were $50 per song, which was unheard of then. But the club only hired THE best so men were willing to pay it) In the lower end clubs there are often a lot of sob stories- runaways, addicts, abuse, you name it. The girls and management often form a family-like bond- house moms (retired strippers who keep the girls in line/hold their hair when they puke) will bail the "house girls" (full time dancers) out of jail, the girls give each other a place to stay, share drugs.. Prostitution is also encouraged, though not directly (though the girls talkmfreely about it) I can't help but wonder if maybe Britt was given some cash and told to flee to a place such as these clubs. Will have to do some searching in the not-so-nice clubs this week. I'm sure it will make my bf even more grateful he has me to come home to LOL
The sad part is that these girls are often considered throwaways. Take Jaren Lockhart. She was working in a club like this (most of those run down clubs are run by the same owner and operate as brothels as much as actual clubs; "VIP rooms" are strongly encouraged w the dancer keeping only half) and living in a sleazy $50/night (or weekly rates) motel and her disappearance would've never raised an eyebrow if she hadn't been so gruesomely murdered. Girls I knew when I danced 8 years ago look 20 years older now, while I look better than ever bc of the differences in our lifestyles.
Despite the dangers however, if I was 20 and beautiful and had a limited amount of money, dancing/living on Bourbon in a place like that temporarily would be my pick. She can easily make enough to support herself and as we know she is an addict, she would appreciate that drugs of whatever your fancy is are readily available. Maybe that was DH's suggestion, instead of what we all pray he didn't do.
Still, I would rather Brittney be in a place like that than gone for good. At least she would have a chance to turn her life around when she is ready and would still be alive!