IHAVE- that was JC, it's on a pic on FB posted 10/31
wth can't any of Cassie's 132 FB friends SAY ANYTHING ABOUT HER? as a person, as a friend, as a family member? Huh??
i am so perturbed i could spit nails
WHERE is this child?
sre, your post made me start thinking about your questions -- they are the same questions I have pondered throughout this whole thread. We all wonder what it is that has made her friends so silent.
Are her friends holding back because they "don't want to get involved," or is it because they didn't know her well? At this rate we may never know, but she was at an age where close friends do share a lot -- or at least that's the way it was with my generation, back in the dark ages. Early and mid-teens are an emotional time -- we were all so scared of not fitting in with some group of kids.
Cassie left school early for some reason -- I don't think we know what it was, or at least I don't know what it was. Something convinced her to leave -- was it grades, snide comments about her wardrobe, was she snubbed or laffed-at by the "in crowd," comments about her mom, did she have BPD and was depressed thus making her reluctant to participate in things or to keep up with classwork or not participate in class, no boyfriend, "bad" or "not-cool" boyfriend, was she clumsy or klutzy, was she "over-ashamed" at her home situation, was she ashamed of her mom, and on and on. Was she afraid to be close to anyone? Not trusting for a good or imagined reason? Did she have anything to be proud of, or a talent for something that could make her special, but she de-valued it? This is all negative, I know, but it seems like she may have been in a real or imagined negative place.
If she was being molested at home, that would have to make her withdrawn and/or distrusting, seems to me. And if molestation was occurring, and she thought her mom knew and allowed it, how did that make her feel? SMH. I just don't know, and I'm distressed as are we all.
Just my thoughts...