Definitely all boys Isisrising and thank you for the post. Look I am going to confess - although I have never used Tinder because in the 20's/30's circle I have found it is well known that Tinder is only for random hookups. Maybe Rrie was just feeling a bit bored and did something risky and it is utterly terrible she met a major creep. I am not going to pretend to be an angel and not say that I haven't had a random hook up but it was years ago with someone I met in person first - this was before online dating became a thing. A lot of my close friends I spent time with moved out of Brisbane and I have been looking to find new people to hang out with so I joined OkCupid. You have to be careful and it is fairly obvious (to me at least) when the guy is nothing but a creep although some profiles you have to read carefully as they can be crafty.
Any profile with no details in it you don't touch. Any profiles where a body builder type bloke shows his abs in a pic or pants pulled almost too low with no face - you avoid. You have to really read the profiles to see what they are really saying. If the guy is super good looking or the image looks fake in any way - I guarantee it is. Lot's of fake profiles with fake pictures. If they sound too good to be true, they are. I have only been on one coffee date which went well but we never went to each other's houses and as he was going overseas to Europe, we didn't catch up again. I also am very cautious with any details I give - which is none and not even my name until we have chatted enough that I want to arrange a date. Anyone who hits you up instantly you have to be careful of as well.
I know there is danger involved and I am very hesitant but I still participate. I also know a number of people who use the app regularly and have no dramas so it can be a double edged sword. All of this aside, any time you are with someone you don't know there is a possibility they are not all there. I toy with wanting to delete that OkCupid profile for fear of meeting another crazy person. I have had enough experience with that in my past without using dating apps...it's just hard to meet people these days and I am not into clubbing or going out to drink as such. A lot of young people do it these days...
I feel sorry for Rrie so much - just an innocent hook up that turned into something so terrible that she lost her life. I really don't believe - regardless of her personal circumstances at home - that she would have jumped off the balcony willingly. And if that happened, why is GT not stating that? He would have come out saying that she threatened to jump, he pleaded with her not to, even tried to stop her and she still jumped over and even then I would have found that suss but a possibility. Not speaking at all is highly suspicious in my opinion and means that something really off happened in that apartment and he is hoping they won't have enough evidence to ever convict.