I am catching up and quoting from a few pages back, forgive me if this lands somewhere off topic.
Asking if she is hungry at 11 or close to 11 seems normal to me, they had been at a baseball game, maybe only had snack food there, probably an early dinner if a real dinner at all.. With my daughters and their events and schedules, I have offered them weekend late night snacks, my husband comes home late from work so if he and I are eating something late I will offer some to my girls if they are up... Maybe after mommy fixed her hair and she "walked by" dad, he was standing at the fridge so he asked if she was hungry... I see no strangeness at all.
Regarding calling her "she, her" and not by name... When you have a child or family member with a Spanish - pronounced name, it is hard to speak English and say their name in spanish and not stumble. One of my girls has an english name and one a spanish name, and when my mouth forms the Spanish name , it's like my brain takes over and wants to keep the remaining part of the sentence in Spanish, and i stumble over it (same with my husbands name and saying my own out loud ) sounds silly but if she talks about Isabel at work a lot and has this same bilingual stumble problem, she might just be used to saying "she or her". I noticed that stumble from RC at the first Press conference she did and even commented to my husband, "she does what I do when I say (daughters name) in an english sentence...