Bobbi Kristina Brown found unresponsive in bathtub. #3

[Curious Me]

NG came out of no where to live in the WH household as a not-really-adopted son, and then a not-really-married mate to BK. Let me voice my frustration, I resent having to be so confused! Surprised that one of the family members hasn't revealed more by selling the real story, whatever it is.

 

[passionflower]

It is so odd about NG, I agree this whole story about him is a big secret. No idea about why we cannot find anything about him, not a word in bio, etc. I'm surprised the media hasn't fund out anything to publish either.

 

[SwampMama]

For what it is worth, the only reason I looked into NG's parents is because of the widely conflicting stories of his childhood, who raised him, how he came to live with WH and BK in their home. NG, his mother and grandmother have all given various conflicting versions to the media. Their stories contradict each other and don't make much sense, so i get tired of the endless debate on the when, why, etc of how he came to live in the WH's house. Can anyone in this whole fiasco just tell the truth and stick to the facts?

 

[JaimeSommers]

I have a feeling that if BK passes away, we'll have all the information on NG's life that we need and then some. There will be so much mud-slinging, we'll probably be going crazy trying to figure out what parts of it are true.

 

[swedie]

I suggested back some time ago that if BK had any rings on when she was admitted to the hospital, they were likely removed because chances are she would be retaining water/fluids, especially if she is having kidney failure. Her body including her fingers would swell. Also the staff may require any jewellery (especially expensive) jewellery be removed for insurance purposes.

Someone came into possession somehow of BK/WH's rings or they have had replicas made just to heighten speculation, rumours, to cause more drama. Could be NG may have taken stuff from the house if LE allowed him back in to get his personal property. Wonder if BK had a safety deposit box and NG or one of BK's family member came into the possession of the key. MOO.

 

[Redbird]

Originally there may have been nothing sinister or particularly confusing about NG's "adoption", simply the parents' natural desire to protect their children's privacy. With WH gone, greed has made all these people have different motives to tell different versions.

 

[Curious Me]

There were other speculations as to how and why BK ended up floating in the tub. That changed for me once NG got going with the social media text messages and acting absolutely selfish and uncontrollable on Dr. Phil. Plus, we found out they had an argument early that morning. Now it seems more likely to me that he had something to do with it.

Does he get big tattoos when he thinks people are gone?

MOO, if he loves BK he would do her honor by acting like a mature, caring man, not wallowing in the attention of his bad, childish behavior. This is no time for him to be hating her father. I guess he expected us to believe he is unraveling due to his love, but it was a really bad act. Hope he gets all clean and sober because he has a lot to face and many questions to answer in the future.

:cow:

 

[BetteDavisEyes]

NG came out of no where to live in the WH household as a not-really-adopted son, and then a not-really-married mate to BK. Let me voice my frustration, I resent having to be so confused! Surprised that one of the family members hasn't revealed more by selling the real story, whatever it is.

Waiting for the best offer from a gossip rag or a book deal

 

[Redbird]

There is not a single relative I would believe if they do.

 

[samantha17]

NG came out of no where to live in the WH household as a not-really-adopted son, and then a not-really-married mate to BK. Let me voice my frustration, I resent having to be so confused! Surprised that one of the family members hasn't revealed more by selling the real story, whatever it is.

Why confused? NG's mother was, at one time, a backup singer for WH .... they are like family and, I'm sure, kept in close touch with each other. Also, NG and BK were good friends. For whatever reason (I think, personally, that he got into drugs) NGs mom could no longer have him in her home and at age 18 Whitney took him in (drug use didn't bother her).

 

[jnblsm]

There were other speculations as to how and why BK ended up floating in the tub. That changed for me once NG got going with the social media text messages and acting absolutely selfish and uncontrollable on Dr. Phil. Plus, we found out they had an argument early that morning. Now it seems more likely to me that he had something to do with it.

Does he get big tattoos when he thinks people are gone?

MOO, if he loves BK he would do her honor by acting like a mature, caring man, not wallowing in the attention of his bad, childish behavior. This is no time for him to be hating her father. I guess he expected us to believe he is unraveling due to his love, but it was a really bad act. Hope he gets all clean and sober because he has a lot to face and many questions to answer in the future.

:cow:

Maybe during the argument that morning, BK took her ring off and threw it at him.

 

[samantha17]

There were other speculations as to how and why BK ended up floating in the tub. That changed for me once NG got going with the social media text messages and acting absolutely selfish and uncontrollable on Dr. Phil. Plus, we found out they had an argument early that morning. Now it seems more likely to me that he had something to do with it.

Does he get big tattoos when he thinks people are gone?

MOO, if he loves BK he would do her honor by acting like a mature, caring man, not wallowing in the attention of his bad, childish behavior. This is no time for him to be hating her father. I guess he expected us to believe he is unraveling due to his love, but it was a really bad act. Hope he gets all clean and sober because he has a lot to face and many questions to answer in the future.

:cow:

The man was drunk and on Xanax during the Dr P interview ... of course he's not going to make sense.

 

[kimlynn]

Why confused? NG's mother was, at one time, a backup singer for WH .... they are like family and, I'm sure, kept in close touch with each other. Also, NG and BK were good friends. For whatever reason (I think, personally, that he got into drugs) NGs mom could no longer have him in her home and at age 18 Whitney took him in (drug use didn't bother her).

I don't think the MG that was on Dr Phil looks anything like the MG that was a singer with the name "songbird" as her middle name. Is this where the backup singer theory is coming from?

 

[kimlynn]

There were other speculations as to how and why BK ended up floating in the tub. That changed for me once NG got going with the social media text messages and acting absolutely selfish and uncontrollable on Dr. Phil. Plus, we found out they had an argument early that morning. Now it seems more likely to me that he had something to do with it.

Does he get big tattoos when he thinks people are gone?

MOO, if he loves BK he would do her honor by acting like a mature, caring man, not wallowing in the attention of his bad, childish behavior. This is no time for him to be hating her father. I guess he expected us to believe he is unraveling due to his love, but it was a really bad act. Hope he gets all clean and sober because he has a lot to face and many questions to answer in the future.

:cow:

Great post. The I hate BB was like a child railing against a parent and for all the relationship issues that BK had with her father she probably wouldn't appreciate anyone trashing him in the public eye.

 

[BetteDavisEyes]

Great post. The I hate BB was like a child railing against a parent and for all the relationship issues that BK had with her father she probably wouldn't appreciate anyone trashing him in the public eye.

NG hasn't done himself any favors with his Twitter rant or comments during the Dr. Phil interview. BK's family has no obligation to allow this young man to visit their loved one. His erratic behavior during the show speaks for itself: Nick Gordon is a ticking time bomb and must be kept away from the Browns and Houstons, and especially Bobbi Kristina.

 

[Redbird]

NG hasn't done himself any favors with his Twitter rant or comments during the Dr. Phil interview. BK's family has no obligation to allow this young man to visit their loved one. His erratic behavior during the show speaks for itself: Nick Gordon is a ticking time bomb and must be kept away from the Browns and Houstons, and especially Bobbi Kristina.

Now I think the picture of the family situation IS getting distorted. WH was divorced from BB when NG moved in with her. BB was not a father figure to him. In the divorce proceedings WH alleged that BB was abusive. I don't know the details of that, but I think it is likely that she and BB were estranged after the divorce. Since BK lived with her mother she must have been somewhat influenced by this. His mother says he moved in with them when he was 18, but I think this must be fiction, since Cissy referred to a brother and sister situation and said the word "incest" and he was referred to as Whitney's "adopted" son. I mean who refers to an 18 year old as "adopted"? Maybe she changed the story because of all the drugs involved and the younger he was, the worse it would sound. I don't know why, but I don't believe he was 18. When WH died BB had a whole new family, brought them to the funeral and didn't stay to console BK because there was no place for his new family to sit. Right or wrong, BK must have felt very abandoned by him then. Then supposedly he continued to abandon her to her new family. If true, what did they expect? She would have easily turned to NG. And being an opportunist, if he is, he would have moved right in to comfort her. Anyway he has been the one living with her since and to me it is crazy to think he would do anything to harm her now. She's dead. What--he's going to rush in to her bedside and assault her? Try to drown her again? That's ridiculous. He is the person she cared the most about at this point in her life and IMO a parent that loved her would want him to come and try to get a response out of her as a last resort. The fact that BB and his family doesn't want this tells me they don't care about her, they just want to make sure the money is protected and they don't want him to cause any more trouble or let any more skeletons out of the closet. The whole thing is disgusting. This poor girl had such a horrible family on both sides.

 

[Curious Me]

MOO

If NG couldn't pull himself together in front of thousands of viewers last week on tv, and he chose to either get messed up or just act messed up, then I wouldn't trust how he'd act visiting BK or her family. This is not the time to attack her family and hate. It is a time to come together for BK. The fact is he's under investigation, and he isn't providing anything caring or useful. Maybe he should find their marriage certificate. :facepalm: He raised more suspicions by acting like an out-of-control maniac. What was that about? It wasn't about Bobbi Kristina, it was all about him.

 

[ScarlettScarpetta]

MOO

If NG couldn't pull himself together in front of thousands of viewers last week on tv, and he chose to either get messed up or just act messed up, then I wouldn't trust how he'd act visiting BK or her family. This is not the time to attack her family and hate. It is a time to come together for BK. The fact is he's under investigation, and he isn't providing anything caring or useful. Maybe he should find their marriage certificate. :facepalm: He raised more suspicions by acting like an out-of-control maniac. What was that about? It wasn't about Bobbi Kristina, it was all about him.

I don't think it was that he could not pull it together but that he is so heavily medicating himself that he can not control his emotions at all.

I think that this is a case of young people that have been left to their own devices too long.

 

[Redbird]

Several years ago, my 91 year old aunt was in a hospice where they withdrew all but "comfort" care to allow her to die. They medicated her to the point she seemed unconscious. My aunt was deaf without her hearing aid. A week before she died I went into her room and called her name. Although she wasn't wearing her hearing aid, when I called her named she moaned. Coincidence? Having had this experience, I can't help but wish they would have allowed NG to speak to her. They didn't and now things have become one big tabloid circus and he has gone on TV intentionally messed up, too messed to do anything. So much for happy endings. So I just wish they would let her go now. That's all I know.

 

[ScarlettScarpetta]

Several years ago, my 91 year old aunt was in a hospice where they withdrew all but "comfort" care to allow her to die. They medicated her to the point she seemed unconscious. My aunt was deaf without her hearing aid. A week before she died I went into her room and called her name. Although she wasn't wearing her hearing aid, when I called her named she moaned. Coincidence? Having had this experience, I can't help but wish they would have allowed NG to speak to her. They didn't and now things have become one big tabloid circus and he has gone on TV intentionally messed up, too messed to do anything. So much for happy endings. So I just wish they would let her go now. That's all I know.

It would not have mattered sadly this girl has been gone since they brought her in. IT is not like your Aunt who was slowly passing, This girl was dead and she was brought back well after it was probably a good idea. She has brain damage from being oxygen deprived for too long. So she would not respond in anyway.
My grandmother died after also being medicated for pain and unconscious for days. She did not move a muscle while we were there, but when I left the room my grandmother opened her eyes reached out closed them and her breathing slowed and she passed in minutes.
I think anything is possible when it comes to those at the end of life, But in this case she was gone when they found her and all they have done since is keep her body alive not her brain.