LivinginNC
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Her name was on all accounts up to 2008. Why wouldn't she know what was going on financially? Never logged online to the bank? Never looked at a bank statement?
You're basically saying that stay at home wives usually don't know what's going on financially in their marriage, because they are a non-contributing member (which is untrue in and of itself).
All households are different. My husband is the bread winner and I handle all the finances. He has no clue how much our utilities, mortgage, groceries, etc are or how much is in our bank account. If he makes a withdrawl from an ATM he could see what our balance is, but many times payments have been made against that balance with online bill pay and it is not a "true" balance. Just saying that finances are handled differently for different people and it is believable that she could have been oblivious to their actual financial issues.