ThoughtFox
Expecting the Unexpected
No I definately don't have any college age kids, my oldest is 8 years old.
I am not and have never been an angel or innocent by any means, but the legal drinking age is 21, or does that not matter anymore? It seems in most of the photos posted she has a drink in her hand, so I think that says that the probability of her drinking that night was high as well.
I am not naive to the fact that kids like to have fun while in college, but out of those photos posted on the group 85% were partying photos. She is only 19 so how long could she have been in college to be partying that much? Not saying that she doesn't make good decisions but like my dad always told me growing up......
Kel
I have two college age children. They are ages 20 and nearly 18, and I know they've both had drinks while at parties. Drinking goes on in college dorms even when they do inspections, and even at Christian colleges. But you know what - drinking and drugs were around when I was a kid 30 years ago. Some of my friends who went to the most conservative colleges did every drug and drank everything, while I lived at home and did nothing. Everyone is different, but drinking is a fact of life, and you try to keep communication open because if you express too much negativity these teenagers won't tell you anything, and that's worse than knowing - believe me!
Here in my state, they have to card everyone, but these kids get older friends to buy stuff for them, so they will always find a way around the rules. I'm not condoning it or saying I approve, but you have to be realistic about what is going on. If a kid goes to a sorority or fraternity party, or any party, they are going to drink.
I agree that this 45 year old guy is creepy. He is old enough to be their Dad, but when has that stopped any guy from hitting on a pretty girl? (Think Drew and Stacy Peterson!)