You mean leave the lit candles at the church? No idea. I can see who's around when we get there and ask them. Hmm, I don't think the family will talk. Maybe but I just don't see it. I don't feel right doing it...not only am I not that close to her, but I don't speak in public
I will talk to the siblings and see. So, like at 7, we light the candles and see if I can get the siblings to talk. If not, we will just mingle, I guess...if we can't leave the candles at the church (which I think would be great), then I guess we blow them out and walk. I'm so bad at this kind of stuff
Thank you for your help!