Wouldnt have anecdotal stories.I can give you empirical data that supports my actual statement, that is, people often make major life changes after recovering from a serious illness. Since you decided to fixate on cancer and divorce, Ill exclude other life changes and relationship situations to make it simpler. This is empirical data from individuals or summaries by professionals knowledgeable in the subject matter. The break-up could be initiated or caused by either party. To avoid semantics, I want to point out that these life changing decisions could be made and/or acted upon during the illness or after recovery.1. Find me an empirical stidy that directly correlates recovery from cancer and ending a marriage to support the assertion that you have now doubled down on - nothing anecdotal.
2. You are admitting you dont know.
4. We dont know why they chose to list it, but to say it is a result of marital breakdown isnt logical. They were putting it on the market because it was part of whatevers plan they had.
5. Again, pure speculation. Saying nothing is appropriate for both her clients privacy and the investigation.
If the marriage was over over why would they both meet with the architect? Why were they still living under the same roof? Why were they spending time in Florida together over the holiday?
(The copied excerpts are the only relevant parts, the rest of the articles deal with other issues.)
Its the kind of transformation that Debra Horsman, programme manager at The Haven, a breast cancer support centre in Leeds, has seen many times. Breast cancer is a massive wake-up call, she says. For a start, it makes you think what may have caused it, looking at diet, lifestyle and stress.
'That may lead you to change your career or end your marriage. Its often assumed that its the man walking out because he cant cope but the number of times women have said to me, Ive put up with him for so long. Not any more!
Survivors also want to enjoy every moment. It doesnt matter if youre 24 or 85, we all have things we want to do, says Horsman. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle/9615701/Life-after-breast-cancer-three-survivors-stories.html
Overall, though, following a diagnosis of breast cancer, as many women leave their husbands as are left by husbands. They don't want to waste their time in an unfulfilling, unhappy marriage. http://www.breastcancer.org/tips/intimacy/partner
This is a strong woman's story:For some survivors, a cancer diagnosis inspires the desire to make healthier choices in their lives, and that may include ending an unhealthy relationship. Mike Uhl, MA, MDiv, LMFT, Mind-Body Therapist at Cancer Treatment Centers of America[SUP]®[/SUP] (CTCA) in Newnan, Georgia, says that issues that arise in a relationship during cancer can make patients aware of problems and inspire them to make changes. They may recognize, now I have a different direction in life, but the other person isnt really interested in this new direction, Uhl says. Like any other crisis, if one person feels like he or she has developed or changed, and the other person hasnt grown, they can outgrow each other. http://www.cancerfightersthrive.com/cancer-and-divorce/
Annabel, 56, said: I made a bucket list and the first thing was to leave my husband. I had a good life but just felt completely trapped and wanted to break free.
Knowing I had a short time to go I knew I couldnt live the rest of my life just being a housewife.
http://metro.co.uk/2017/05/14/woman...nd-after-being-diagnosed-with-cancer-6636621/