Gardenkeep
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Thank you for sharing this! (Imagine a big heart here, because I don't know how to put an image of one, and it definitely deserves a really big heart.I keep thinking about the Gman & watching his YT video. He instantly reminded me of my grandgift, an 11 yr old autistic bundle of energy! I have permission (via a Mod) to talk about my grandson & show you some comparisons to G. This is all MOO towards G & I am not in any way stating he was autistic just comparing traits I see.
I guess what started this out was the photo of G & LS’s backs sitting on a boulder. IMO G is being forced to sit way too close to her & she was probably forcefully holding him tight. Perhaps it’s her version of “look he loves to snuggle with me”. My grandson has his bubble & we don’t intrude unless he invites us first.
My grandson doesn’t have any filters. He will see, hear & speak to others very frankly. He doesn’t mean to be harsh, rude or direct. It’s just his black & white with no grey world.
For instance he reads you for what he sees you as, your rawness. If G seen only LS’s rawness & couldn’t see her behind blinders as she sought from others maybe she was irritated at this. When I ask my grandson a question I am prepared for his answer. Maybe G didn’t give LS the answers she wanted. Maybe G wasn’t able to keep secrets with the ongoings of when his dad was out of town. Because G seen truth & lie only?
My grandgift will tell on himself even if it meant he would be in trouble. He can’t lie (well of course he can try....very badly & then giggles) but he will say “no I did this or that”. He loves to please others to make them happy even if you can see it isn’t best for him to do so. Maybe G was like this? Maybe he tried keeping LS happy knowing it would still hurt him in the long run BUT not his sister?
I am putting this all out there because maybe just maybe this was G’s own thought process? Maybe not telling his mom or dad what was happening (not saying it was prior) in his mind was his SUPER POWER to keep his little sister safe. All MOO