Thank you! It's a relief to know that she wasn't living with his family when she first moved there. I think we can exclude "he impregnated her, he forced her to move" and "control" issues. It doesn't sound like he was controlling anything in relation to her decision to move there, continue dating him, find a job, give birth, and invest in real estate near his mother's acreage.
Her uncle seems to make it clear that she couldn't live with him because he was living with his mom, as in he did not have a home for her to move into. I'm curious whether she knew in advance that he lived with mom, or whether she thought he was a rancher. Early reports were that he was a rancher, and now we know that he lives on mom's 35 acre property. Big difference.
Seems a bit messed up. She met him online and liked him enough to move closer to him. She lived independently through the pregnancy and then bought a home for the family, yet he was unable to separate from mom and be part of the family?