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Do we have anything to indicate she never met him in person before moving everything to be with him?
Because otherwise, what's the difference? It's like a blind date. They had those in the 50's and 60's. They have them now too. Amber Frey met SP on a blind date set up by a friend.
Big difference today is that you can easily do background checks. Which makes women today probably safer, if they'd utilize them, than they were in the past.
The fact is not everyone met through church or work of friends back then and not everyone meets people through the internet now.
Plenty of people then met total strangers at dance halls, on buses, at bars, cafes, etc. And plenty of people now still meet at work or church or through friends.
But the question is, what's the difference (besides the ability to do cheap and quick background checks)? So you meet someone on line. Eventually you're going to meet in person. There's no contract created or circumstances that would prevent intuition and gut instinct from kicking in at that moment, right?
I don't think women are less safe today because of technology. Maybe more safe if they'd use it wisely. But probably about the same.
It might comes down to the same reason countless intelligent, intuitive women have fallen for terrible men, going back as far as recorded history. They ignore their gut. They want babies and marriage and ignore that intuition.
Finally, while we know KB was an intelligent woman with her life together, how do we know she was intuitive? Not everyone is. Do we have information to indicate that?
After Chris Watts, I'm beginning to think that when someone wants to get involved with someone else that full psychological profiles should be done on both families, MMPIs and the Hare Psychopath test take by both; spiritual counseling to make sure you're on the same page there; maybe PET scans of the brain; astrological charts, tarot cards, background checks, credit checks and completing Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University. Worse part is, I'm not kidding. One or more of those things might reveal information that would make someone take pause and go in another direction.