Ilovemy3boys
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Wow!!!Absolutely!
Wow!!!Absolutely!
Can you link that video?So I'm watching through all her videos and maybe we over analyzing everything.
I just watched one where she is promoting Café from thrive and she's not very kind to CW.
CW is holding CeCe the entire time and he is in the back behind SW. SW tells him here make your own.
Then she moves the camera over to Bella and says here your cuter than dad.
CW tries to join in on the conversation as SW states it's cold in CO, Fire, Café and cookies. CW states and lots of snow. She literally never acknowledges him or interacts with him. Like I said totally over analyzing everything. Well I am anyway MOO
The water squirting video doesn't bother me that much. Kids like sprinklers, water pistols and water balloon. Bella seemed to like it. It just went on way, way too long and concentrating on her face was not good. Squirting CeCe in the house wasn't good. CeCe was afraid of it. "Open the door" she says to Chris.It looked obvious to me that Bella didn't like to be squirted in the face..Does anyone? Her laughter didn't sound enjoyable but very nervous..Don't know if Mom picked up on that but she def appeared to be the one that was having the fun, not Bella.
Shanann WattsCan you link that video?
So I'm watching through all her videos and maybe we over analyzing everything.
I just watched one where she is promoting Café from thrive and she's not very kind to CW.
CW is holding CeCe the entire time and he is in the back behind SW. SW tells him here make your own.
Then she moves the camera over to Bella and says here your cuter than dad.
CW tries to join in on the conversation as SW states it's cold in CO, Fire, Café and cookies. CW states and lots of snow. She literally never acknowledges him or interacts with him. Like I said totally over analyzing everything. Well I am anyway MOO
Her comments about CW are so sweet and complimentary. I wish she would have known about his true evil self.
The logic they are employing is that the kids were sick so often that SW must have been responsible.
From there, they conclude that she had a pattern of harming the kids, so C.W.’s scenario of Shanann strangling them, is supported by her previous behavior of hurting her children.
It’s one giant leap, and IMO, an unbelievable scenario.
I wasn’t addressing you in particular, just the sentiment being expressed, and the thought process behind it.I can't take any of the videos at face value any more.
I'm not. I'm trying to separate truth from fiction, what is stated and what is real.
It's good practice to sift through any & all information available, it's part of being on WS for me.
It is alleged that the MIL left nuts out within reach of the child who was allergic to nuts because she did not believe that the child was allergic. Not her call IMO.
Who knows? But IMO, to evoke a response irrational enough to make someone want to run down the hall and strangle her two innocent little daughters, it would have to have been something heart wrenching, enough that it made her feel like a complete fool, something like, “I can’t stand the sight of you, I never loved you, I never felt love like I feel with the AP, she’s so much in bed than you are. She understands me.”I wonder if he threatened to fight for custody.
The logic they are employing is that the kids were sick so often that SW must have been responsible.
From there, they conclude that she had a pattern of harming the kids, so C.W.’s scenario of Shanann strangling them, is supported by her previous behavior of hurting her children.
It’s one giant leap, and IMO, an unbelievable scenario.
And the MIL also gave an ice cream cone that had 3 different kinds of nuts in it to the kid who get have it (Bella?) and had her eat it in front of CeCe. MIL said, we'll she has to learn that she can't have it.It is alleged that the MIL left nuts out within reach of the child who was allergic to nuts because she did not believe that the child was allergic. Not her call IMO.
But how do you judge what is true and what is not?I can't take any of the videos at face value any more.
I'm not. I'm trying to separate truth from fiction, what is stated and what is real.
It's good practice to sift through any & all information available, it's part of being on WS for me.
Shanann made a post on FB about this. In her own words, Shanann said that her MIL stored a big bag of pistachios on the lower shelf of her kitchen island.
I know we can’t link to social media, but that’s the story.
And the MIL also gave an ice cream cone that had 3 different kinds of nuts in it to the kid who get have it (Bella?) and had her eat it in front of CeCe. MIL said, we'll she has to learn that she can't have it.
It sounds like a battle of wills between the MIL and SW.
MY exBf's sister kept feeding his little dog meals with pork in it that made him vomit. I told the sister about t and she wouldn't stop. I even saved the vomit with the pork chunks in it
and showed her but she was determined to keep feeding him pork. (She was histronic, borderline, and a malignant narcissist).
I do not see any evidence of Munchausen by proxy at all. Illnesses seem to be legitimate, as opposed to some mysterious symptoms that Dr's. can't figure out, unless I have missed something. I have seen the video of the water bottle, and I see no problem with that either. I'm not sure what the problem is that some have seen, the child seems not only content but gleeful in the video. Squirting in the face would not be my first choice, but the child did not object, and even opened her mouth and put her tongue out to get some water. Her body language, actions, and laughter all seem to indicate that she was enjoying herself.Kids get sick all the time, some more than others. Maybe Shanann was a hypochondriac, but there is absolutely no evidence of something nefarious going on. These kids had normal illnesses and conditions, and there is nothing to indicate that she was hurting them intentionally.
I’ve done quite a bit of reading on Munchausen by proxy, and there are no parallels here. Using some videos, and the knowledge that the kids tended to get sick, is beyond a flimsy argument.
That’s interesting... it’s actually the opposite for me... the videos have definitely improved my view of C.W. He appears to be involved and attentive and I see no reason at all to question that he genuinely loved those girls.I will admit that I have been proven wrong. I made the assumption that all of the videos were very happy portraits of the perfect family, but it looks like there was more of a mixed bag, and maybe the videos show "real" family life with ups and downs. If anything, this makes SW more relatable (which is good for her).
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