I also believe the onerous debt and phoney affluent lifestyle charade did play a part in this tragedy.
I believe C.W. has actually convinced himself that SW IS responsible for the children’s deaths. He knows that HE killed them, but he may believe it’s a “See what you made me do!” scenario. I do think he’s the “mouse that roared.” I think he had come to feel that HE was mistreated and used. He may have felt that this pregnancy and her “business” were spiraling them deeper and deeper into financial abyss. I think he blames her for his rage that led to his crime.
He’s just adjusting his story to sell it to a jury. Pitiful.
Reading through their social media, he talks about doing the vacuuming and mopping. He is left alone for 5 weeks while she takes off...and then she’s off again...and he’s left with the children. Shanann...unfortunately...constantly emphasized about how her job isn’t “work”but partying, traveling, making calls by a resort pool. Maybe she inadvertently convinced him that this job was more about HER fun times and it may have been costing them more than she brought in. (Google LeVel reviews for some additional insight.)
Maybe he was seething that he works a traditional job all day and is still cleaning and babysitting...and he may have started believing that HER job was not only getting them further in debt but putting more demands on HIS free time.
I’m not justifying his attitudes...if he had them. But their social media certainly could be interpreted to support such a supposition.
In that long video where she goes from inside the house out to the patio, SW is recruiting new people to her team...talking about her “success.” But she’s standing outside a $400,000 home probably entailed in a bankruptcy...giving a false impression in order to lead others into this “business” to enhance her own profit. She is the picture of affluence when she knows nothing could be farther from the truth. “Work for me and you will have all the free time, free travel, and free luxury cars that your heart desires! “ Did she really believe this? Was she so besotted by her new”status” that she had lost objectivity about the state of their finances?
Had he always let her be the head of the household?
Being respectful of the dead does not mean deifying them. We cant learn from these crimes if we immediately make the victim angelic and above reproach and the accused a “monster.” This is a monstrous crime..but what toxic combination of personalities/events brought them to it?
Nothing is that black and white. There are lots of borderline personalities etc...lots of narcissism individuals in marriages...but what are the triggers that create the tragic and toxic pathways to this kind of horror? If we just assume total perfection by the victim, total evil by the accused...we shut down avenues that might lead to prevention.
And before anyone posts this...no one deserves just a horrific end. This is not about “deserving.” I am curious about the elements that make these relationships combustible. It is naive to believe it is just pure evil vs pure perfection. SW didnt think C.W. was pure evil all the years they lived together. Yet he became so that night in their home.
I could vote for the death penalty for him at this point. But I am still curious. I doubt that in a million years, SW would ever have predicted he would do this to her or her babies.