I don't like to think like this, but didn't SW post the picture of the covered doll? Did she tag CW?
If I was pregnant, have 2 children, a ton of debt, no way to support myself or children, have a chronic, painful illness and my husband had an AP, who has a great job...what would I be thinking? I would be angry and really probably not having the best thoughts. Actually, i might be irrationally angry fighting to keep my family together and lashing out at the person who hurt me. I would feel tricked and I might and do some irrational things.
Neither one of them in their videos strike me as controlling, unhappy...yes, fake...maybe, but not overtly controlling...well I could never convince my husband to wear a matching shirt for family portraits and my husband would view that as controlling.
There has been nothing to support controlling behavior prior to CW's interview, which showed him trying to paint a much different picture than what he knew to be the truth.
I think this will go to trial. I don't think many people, if any beside SW and CW, knew what went on behind closed doors in that house. The situation with finances, small children, illness and an AP was a powder keg waiting for a spark.
No one deserved to die, but that was the outcome. I can not even speculate if SW took that picture and tagged CW days before this happened because that might have been a message.