There should be moral guilt with this JL guy he has a wife and six children and I’m sure some of them are young. I feel bad for them too. Poor Suzanne like so many abused women probably wasn’t thinking clearly, weak and fragile just looking for someone to give her enough strength to leave. I think if JL really cared about Suzanne he should have known better and ended it instead of putting her in harms way as he did. I think he knew Barry was capable of hurting Suzanne but thought of only himself having affections of a sweet beautiful woman. Its hard enough when your having marital problems then add to the fire. I would have been scared to death having a affair with a big hunter husband who kills innocent animals and a spousal abuser, mainly mental abuse which can be worse Suzanne was gambling with her life knowing scary hubby could catch them. These things never end well. I think JL is a coward. He was never going to leave his wife and six kids for Suzanne. He even said that in his last text his gang was his home. I hope Suzanne is alive somewhere but my heart says differently. Can’t believe he wasn’t man enough to come forward. What a whimp.
Respectfully, I think that may be assuming a lot about JL. We have no idea what his marriage is/was like.
Why is a guy expected to be less 'wimpy' than a woman?
There are a lot of marriages where the woman is extremely dominant.
There are way too many double standards these days. imo
Double standards work both ways.
Suzanne was 'abused, not thinking clearly, weak and fragile'.
How do we know that the same does not apply to JL?
Perhaps if Suzanne really cared about JL,
she should have ended it. He has 6 children to raise.
It appears to me that JL and Suzanne were strong
together. Their strength when apart, when not bolstering each other, might have been a different story, for both of them.
I just don't like to see anyone judged harshly when we know absolutely nothing about them. It makes it sound, to me, as if everybody else was wrong, and Suzanne was always right. She was human. No doubt as a human being she made mistakes. As, apparently, did JL.