katydid23
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September you mean?Not until August 17th 2021. IMO
September you mean?Not until August 17th 2021. IMO
Maybe. @Warwick7 . IMOSeptember you mean?
Yes. That would be very helpful not just to the fact finders and adjudicators but for her daughters, as well, as a wake up call that what may seem normal to them is actually abuse.MOO -
Was there a pillow missing from the house? Could that be the pillow that was found in the trash in the hotel room? Maybe he smothered her and needed to get rid of it. Don’t know why it wouldn’t go in one of the 5 garbage dumps if so…
The 11 calls from Barry on Saturday afternoon are the most damning, in my opinion. People who do that tend to do that because they feel they are being ignored and are desperate to talk to the person. It’s a hallmark of many young relationships, and also a controlling behavior. It also speaks to pre-meditation in my mind. He had time to call her 11 times, decide to come home and kill her. Did he find proof she was talking to JL? Had she responded something other than hot tub supplies as their last interaction? I feel like there was a final trigger to send him over the edge. He may not have been planning it to the extent that he waited til the girls were gone, etc, but I think he’d definitely thought about killing her in the past week at LEAST and knew when he got home and opened that car door what he was going to do.
I hope the prosecutors call an expert in domestic violence and abusive behavior to show the patterns here, and to discuss intimate partner violence and how it escalates. That leaving a partner is the most dangerous time, and that husbands don’t “accidentally clip” the sides of their wives noses.
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Was there a pillow missing from the house? Could that be the pillow that was found in the trash in the hotel room? Maybe he smothered her and needed to get rid of it. Don’t know why it wouldn’t go in one of the 5 garbage dumps if so…
The 11 calls from Barry on Saturday afternoon are the most damning, in my opinion. People who do that tend to do that because they feel they are being ignored and are desperate to talk to the person. It’s a hallmark of many young relationships, and also a controlling behavior. It also speaks to pre-meditation in my mind. He had time to call her 11 times, decide to come home and kill her. Did he find proof she was talking to JL? Had she responded something other than hot tub supplies as their last interaction? I feel like there was a final trigger to send him over the edge. He may not have been planning it to the extent that he waited til the girls were gone, etc, but I think he’d definitely thought about killing her in the past week at LEAST and knew when he got home and opened that car door what he was going to do.
I hope the prosecutors call an expert in domestic violence and abusive behavior to show the patterns here, and to discuss intimate partner violence and how it escalates. That leaving a partner is the most dangerous time, and that husbands don’t “accidentally clip” the sides of their wives noses.
Great questions, I agree I would love to know all of this information. I too have so many questions about the girl's trip.And doesn't anybody want to hear from the girls:
How and when the camping trip got planned.
Who paid for it?
Telephone calls before and after Mother’s Day to Mom? To Dad?
Dad’s efforts, if any, to find Mom?
Dad’s statements about Mom’s disappearence.
Why have the murdered mom’s children been kept out of the investigation?
Barry had to load that dart with tranquilizer chemicals, which in and of itself would equal “deliberation.”
There is a frantic event in the backyard, which Barry admits to with the “chipmunk story.”
An expert said that Suzanne would likely be out in a few minutes.
So the theory appears to be that he shoots her, she runs and locks herself in her bedroom, and he breaks in, damaging the door.
Before she succumbs, she is able to scratch Barry on the shoulder with 3 of her nails (he’s probably on top of her strangling or suffocating her at this point).
So the data shows an event, but even if one doesn’t believe it, Barry says it’s true.
A syringe cap is found in the dryer, and darts in the garage. Barry explains that deer somehow come to his garage area, and he shoots them with darts. It’s as improbable as it is illegal, and no antlers are even found.
Taken alone, the physical evidence doesn’t mean much (darts, door, etc), but Barry’s insane stories shape a picture that seems pretty solid to me.
For one, ATM Barry would no longer have a mechanism for control.I have my thoughts regarding ATM Barry. I’ve been trying to be quiet about it but my absolute ever first original thought about loyalty by certain members of the family was $$$$$$$$$. What would happen if that was gone? What would happen to those who knew only one type of lifestyle? No vacations, no Nike Air Force ones custom made, no Louis Vuitton’s , no 100 bathing suits, no range rovers. What happens then ??
But just to me. Just to me. That camping situation. e.t.c. It seems to me toGreat questions, I agree I would love to know all of this information. I too have so many questions about the girl's trip!
But unfortunately we can't sleuth any of this because they are not POI's
JMO
ITAYes. And let's not forget that hour he spent by the river where he said he was looking for the dead turkey. I am sure he spent that hour plotting, stalking and preparing. MOO
Cheers my friend and well done @NoSI take a much deserved rest now please !Oh @MassGuy... Pssst!
There is absolutely no credit due. I mean it! It was the right thing to do. She has been such a trooper for Suzanne and put herself out there over and over. She deserved and needed to be there. That's all there is to it.
BTW, came up with a new mantra. Will repeat it often for next 3 1/2 weeks...
SCaTMG - Stay Come and Trust MassGuy!!!!!
Yes, someone who is passionate about telling the jury who Suzanne was. I know for me that has been a cornerstone of my interest in this case. She really seemed to connect with people in a genuine & special way that made them feel she cared & they were important. Now that gift is gone and the mourning will last a lifetime for many, many people.I think a conviction will rest on the closing argument. The prosecution will need a likable presenter who is capable of keeping the jury engaged while they weave all the parts together into an understandable and believable sequence of events. A rebuttal of such a presentation will only be able to be done by trying to pick it apart point by point and offering alternative explanations. The very nature of that kind of rebuttal is boring and dry and hard to keep people engaged with. IMO, in the absence of a body or a smoking gun, the masterful storyteller is the key to victory.
Only truly good person would do what you did. Thank you.Oh @MassGuy... Pssst!
There is absolutely no credit due. I mean it! It was the right thing to do. She has been such a trooper for Suzanne and put herself out there over and over. She deserved and needed to be there. That's all there is to it.
BTW, came up with a new mantra. Will repeat it often for next 3 1/2 weeks...
SCaTMG - Stay Come and Trust MassGuy!!!!!
I agree. I’ve always thought he was psyching himself up to kill her. Ironically, his hour spent by the river is the last moment of calm he’s had in the last 15 months.Yes. And let's not forget that hour he spent by the river where he said he was looking for the dead turkey. I am sure he spent that hour plotting, stalking and preparing. MOO
Personally I believe he did use the darts, so I agree that there's a picture there.Barry had to load that dart with tranquilizer chemicals, which in and of itself would equal “deliberation.”
There is a frantic event in the backyard, which Barry admits to with the “chipmunk story.”
An expert said that Suzanne would likely be out in a few minutes.
So the theory appears to be that he shoots her, she runs and locks herself in her bedroom, and he breaks in, damaging the door.
Before she succumbs, she is able to scratch Barry on the shoulder with 3 of her nails (he’s probably on top of her strangling or suffocating her at this point).
So the data shows an event, but even if one doesn’t believe it, Barry says it’s true.
A syringe cap is found in the dryer, and darts in the garage. Barry explains that deer somehow come to his garage area, and he shoots them with darts. It’s as improbable as it is illegal, and no antlers are even found.
Taken alone, the physical evidence doesn’t mean much (darts, door, etc), but Barry’s insane stories shape a picture that seems pretty solid to me.
I'm listening to Scott Reisch (even though I don't like him) and he just said he had a judge reduce a charge from 1st degree murder to conspiracy to commit during a prelim. He also said it's likely BM likely will be bound over for trial