scapa
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BBM:
Nor is SM able to leave.
He's blocking her means of egress.
That snapshot in time may indeed turn out to be a very symbolic representation of their relationship.
JMO.
Trying to follow but a bit confused as to the image in question given the spread of posts. Are we talking about the snap in this CrimeOnline article?
YouTuber who ‘secretly’ recorded video of Barry Morphew discussing wife’s disappearance says he believes Suzanne Morphew’s husband knew the camera was on
If so, then while I agree that this role of BM-as-gatekeeper may have been part of their relationship, as a longtime student of John Berger's Ways of Seeing, I find that my eye is drawn more to the background figure of SM, smiling and confident, looking straight at the camera, absolutely in command of her body and her responses -- whether or not the moment is one of welcome or unwelcome surprise, interruption of a private moment, etc. Actually, of the photos I've seen of her, she is generally looking highly self-possessed, always composed, unselfconscious, in control of the gaze of whomever the viewer may be. She dominates the frame, charismatically, like a veteran actor or performer, not a downtrodden spouse -- and, speaking as a veteran actor and performer, that isn't easy to fake.
BM, on the other hand, is frequently closer to the edge of the photo, looking relatively more self-conscious, certainly less easy in his skin. In photos of them together it is she who takes over the frame, IMO. This of course is purely IMO, and may have absolutely nothing to do with the case at hand. But I suspect that their relationship, like that of many longterm couples, is likely to have contained a complex power dynamic that ebbed and flowed, publicly and privately, without the static centres or silos we sometimes (myself included) project onto the likely victim of a crime.
One recent eye-opener for me in this respect was the Maddie Bell case. For those of you who've made it through her videos in which she tells her story, her self-representation is a pretty substantial counter to the MB portrait built up through the media/family narratives -- not judging in any way, just an interesting case in point, IMO, where the divergent views actually help to explain the particulars of the story.