Fireflize
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or possibly style of language/tone changed, that made the friend think it wasn't SM? just a thought![]()
Absolutely! Didn't think of that!
or possibly style of language/tone changed, that made the friend think it wasn't SM? just a thought![]()
Oh ok. When it comes to texting I don’t get upset about an abrupt end. Sometimes people are just living their lives. I even thought the perp rang her doorbell. now a phone call interrupted, I would be calling the police myself after an hour or so.No, I was just trying to think of a clear scenario that would give me ‘panic’
Ah yes, that is something I would pick up on.Absolutely! Didn't think of that!
Did Suzanne text “help” to her friend? I had not heard that. Just came to thread so there may be a link I missed. Thanks.
What if Barry wasn’t supposed to be in the house that Saturday night? That makes more sense why Suzanne’s girlfriend was in panic mode. We don’t know for a fact Barry was supposed to go to ‘Denver’ on Sunday morning. Did he snuck into the house like a burglar in the night in order to terrorize and murder his wife? After all these years following hundreds of cases, I wouldn’t put it past a desperate murderous husband to do this.Or maybe he stayed home since bars and restaurants were closed and his wife wasn't paying him any attention. After all, what does some old friend in Indiana have that would make his wife devote hours of her time when she could have been focusing all her attention on him?
Got it. I heard from poster.You have misread this. An example was being given of a possible scenario.It was not posted as a fact.
Imagine this (speculation, of course): You are planning your son's wedding and have spent a better part of your day communicating with your best friend that reportedly long ago planned on attending the wedding.
You are looking at various wedding websites. You are looking at fabric for the wedding party when there's a pause to take a vote. Minutes later you return to the conversation and ask SM how much fabric to order and there is no response. SM just goes dark, never to be heard from again. You keep trying to reach her and nothing. An abrupt ending. It would certainly define my panic mode. MOO
I think you nailed it, at least so far as my own imagination is involved. That's exactly the kind of thing that would make most people get worried. Especially if texting/messaging. My best friend and I switch to email if we know we're going to be interrupted, text is for ongoing convo, even if it takes all day.
If the conversation were about making a decision, and one person had just indicated they wanted a rapid response, the other person not responding would be so worrisome. Especially at a time when the friend was still receiving maintenance chemotherapy AND there's CoVid.
I think it's not JUST that the conversation ended abruptly; it's the single mention by one of the PE guys that it CHANGED.
That's where panic sets in. IMO.
JMO
My questions:
Who did the Range Rovers belong to?
JMO
That friend may have also known things about Suzanne's personal life and health that caused her to react that way. MOO
Thx for transcript. I feel that there is some very important evidence in that text conversation. I think Mike and Chris know what it is. Moo
@ 31.00- Chris says, "that conversation Saturday night, it began Saturday afternoon .... if my wife's best friend, was in communication with my wife and all the sudden everything just stopped, I mean if that's not a red flag, I don't know what is".
Host jumps in and gives her perspective on how/why the texting stopped.
Chris interrupts her dialog and says "that's not what happened". He says it again in plural, "that's not what happened, that's not what happened".
Host blows over what Chris said and continues to talk about her own perspective on the texting abruptly ending.
Chris next says, "the girlfriend went into panic mode, let's just put it there", as he smiles knowingly and nods.
Mike jumps in next and starts talking about behavioral patterns, as in how does Suzanne normally communicate. He ends with "what some evidence is pointing to, is it wasn't normal behavior, so it becomes more important".
@ 31.00- Chris says, "that conversation Saturday night, it began Saturday afternoon .... if my wife's best friend, was in communication with my wife and all the sudden everything just stopped, I mean if that's not a red flag, I don't know what is".
Host jumps in and gives her perspective on how/why the texting stopped.
Chris interrupts her dialog and says "that's not what happened". He says it again in plural, "that's not what happened, that's not what happened".
Host blows over what Chris said and continues to talk about her own perspective on the texting abruptly ending.
Chris next says, "the girlfriend went into panic mode, let's just put it there", as he smiles knowingly and nods.
Mike jumps in next and starts talking about behavioral patterns, as in how does Suzanne normally communicate. He ends with "what some evidence is pointing to, is it wasn't normal behavior, so it becomes more important".
I can totally see her mentoring and/or finding resources to help young people. JMO.The PE hosts also talked about how they tried to get to know SM. They looked at her FB, her photos, quoted scripture, etc.
They referenced how BM could only muster 28 seconds for a 30+ year relationship.
I followed up the PE hosts video by looking at SM's "likes" on her FB. There are less than a dozen and this one caught my eye:
"Wings of Encouragement" -- a drug treatment program(?).
It's certainly nothing definitive -- just another piece of the puzzle. SM could have been a donor. MOO
Me too, it wasn't just about wedding planning.Thx for transcript. I feel that there is some very important evidence in that text conversation. I think Mike and Chris know what it is. Moo