So, I tried a little experiment with Barry's video:
First, I watched it with the sound muted.
Then, I listened to it with my eyes closed.
It was an interesting exercise.
One thing I noticed when I was watching sans sound is that, as several other posters have pointed out, he shook his head side to side in a negative motion almost the entire time.
The other thing I noticed with just visual sensory input was that BM's facial expression did not alter whatsoever…and by that I mean, not even a flicker.
His forehead is heavily furrowed, and watching his face, the lines/wrinkles in his forehead remained completely frozen throughout. 0 facial movement.
That struck me as unusual.
To me, it indicated he was aware of and controlling his facial expressions.
When I switched sensory inputs to auditory and listened to him with my eyes closed, a specific sentence caused my ears to perk up:
"We love you. We miss you. Your daughters need you."
What I expected to hear was, "We love you. We miss you. Our daughters need you."
He did not say, "OUR daughters need you," which would have been in keeping with his previous plural "We" statements.
He switched it to the singular, "Your" when talking about the girls.
My ears picked up that discrepancy immediately.
I think it was distancing language, and that he was unconsciously distancing himself from his daughters in that moment, because he knows how much pain they're experiencing, and does not want to acknowledge the reasons for their pain.
Then again, as Freud famously said, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
Maybe he's just a crappy grammarian.
JMO.
