You know what you're making me angry!
#1 I'm not a family member but have been friends with Melanie and Bud for many years.
Did I find everything here uplifting that had been said about them? No but you know what I did? I came in here and presented these people with the truth! I told them the things they didn't know about my friends. That is how friends and families of the victims handle it.
Now as for letting a 13 year old? You bet your bottom dollar my 13 yr old won't go on any websites I don't allow. That is what discretion and parental controls are for.
I'm very sorry for you if you have lost control of your child already at 13 because boy are you in for some tough teenage years to come.
I have three kids, one barely a preteen. And I am the parent, I control what they do, where they go, what they see, and what they read. That is MY job.
Sad you don't seem to view that as your job.