I am familiar with a certain fact pattern not completely alien to many of the criminal and personality profiles present here.
Do we know FD’s U.S. citizenship status and the time/basis of it being issued, obtained, or finalized?
For sociopsths, other people are typically just inconvenient roadblocks, invoked or employed to support his narrative, self-aggrandizement, status, access, or simple means to an end. Sociopaths are opportunistic, unconcerned with compliance, rules, laws, procedures, loyalty, fair dealing; and most of all, increasingly impatient with delays or impediments between what the possess and what more or better they desire. Most desired tend to be power, status, control, domination, retaliation, freedom, money, pleasure, appearance, etc.
Re FD’s first post college marriage, I suspect it’s possible (if not likely) JD was told by FD some sob story that seemed credible and sincere, that painted FD as the betrayed but still not bitter and totally respectful victim as concerned the first wife. JD may have had no idea FD was still married at the time she ran into him at the airport twice in 2003 in Colorado. He may have at some point mentioned the amicable split because that was just the kind of stand-up guy FD was not to bash an ex, no matter how cruel or horrible the ex was to him. Yes his heart was broken, but he was not bitter and right now just focused on working hard to build or rebuild the business and his career he somewhat put on hold in order to support his first ex in her dream of pursuing law school.
The ex may have been his ticket to U.S. citizenship; she might have caught on to him; or he might have squeezed about all the cash from her he could her and was ready to move on.
Either that, or the narrative would have had to be how crushed FD was when he returned early from a business trip or visit home to help his elderly/ailing [insert some unknown relative] or for dramatic effect a family funeral, only to discover — he hates to even mention it — that wife one was not the person he had thought she was. The salacious details of her betrayal at this point just water under the bridge; it broke his heart; but he’s over it and just hoping to move on and heal from it. Maybe FD drops in that the first wife or his parents had threatened him or were dragging out legal proceedings or insisted on NDA’s or tried to strip him of separate sizable family assets in Greece that dragged proceedings out, but he was just tired of fighting.
JD may have had no idea FD was still a married man or signature papers on the Texas divorce still wet when he popped back up serendipitously a year later in her life just a couple blocks down the street. It was all just serendipity. Their friendship rekindled immediately and then the love bombing grew from there. The rest is history.
I am soooo hoping wife one is, at minimum, interviewed by police and the records from the earlier divorce subpoenaed.
I know of a local divorce with a similar personality type as this husband, and the outrageousness of the $h*t he pulled to hide assets, forge signatures, swiped a notary stamp, and misrepresent everything and hide assets everywhere and hide himself claiming zero assets or income while globetrotting and living the high life on his next victim was just so totally off the charts it remains to me unbelievable, yet So obviously it did.
It was cruel, immoral, illegal, outrageous, and pure evil. Completely understandably, wife one wanted the zero held accountable by the court and wanted their children not to be destitute and victimized. Wife’s family were/are a tight one, but they were without the financial means of some others who sometimes find themselves in this position as well. While the zero and scam artist philandering sociopath globe trotted, inflated his resume, and traded up to a huge cash cow with wife two, wife two may have fully believed that it was husband one who’d been the innocent. Wife one and their many young children were homeless for years, on school lunch programs and crappy medikid health care had all his properties and companies buried deep within Russian Dolls hidden everywhere, leaching and globetrotting continually, seldom paying ever a cent of support to the wife and children he found so disposable and a golden family so good and close who for so many years treated him so well and believed him to be the person he portrayed himself to be.
Wife one wanted to fight for her kids and fight for herself. What he did to them was evil almost beyond measure and certainly without regret. But there was no way to protect them and I sensed and feared what he was capable of — likely the same sort of thing that has happened here. Only my friend remains for now alive as do all her children and her family members. It’s better to have them all poor and betrayed and alive than dead. No court can really fix this; no security can every really protect you when you’re dealing with someone like my friend’s X or like FD. The more they do not pose a threat, the more they do not challenge or pursue him or seek to expose him or make him worry they could blow his cover, the better the chance they have to remain to stay alive. The court system is so often a joke as concerns these kinds of issues and sociopaths. So much of our society assumes and is premised on voluntary compliance. The expired registration broken taillight people get cuffed and dragged in. White collar criminals and truly skilled homicidial sociopaths are seldom quickly caught, if caught at all, and seldom do much serious time, if any. Even if they eventually do, they often continue to threaten and cause harm from behind bars, they seldom stop seeking the spotlight, flirting with the gallery, vilifying their victims, and denying that they ever did anything wrong.
I hope this guy FD is the exception as concerns folks like this going down for his crimes. I wonder if he has another wife in Cyprus, Greece, or Italy. Perhaps he’s got cash stashed everywhere.
FD had more than anyone could want. Like my friend’s former spouse, FD was blessed with such a good family, innocent children, and a beautiful brilliant loving wife.
But that’s not what people like FD really want. What they always want is more. And more for sure is their right. They will destroy anyone and anything they choose just to get more of what they want and to which they feel entitled; which is to say, everyone and everything.
Guys like FD do not like to be challenged and they do not like to share. No one is safe around them, because despite their many outward charms, when they are done with you, you may also be done.
MT should be very afraid, not blowing kisses or tossing hair. She’s a serpent too, but this Foris guy is a nest of snakes; she’ll have no idea yet of just how completely she’s been set up. It’ll come out eventually, or not, depend who remains undead at the time of trial. My guess is she’ll go missing soon, ankle bling notwithstanding.