It seems everything was his way, and he was the expert on all things. I am not sure I read every article, I got so disgusted - which mentioned the "Greek educator"? I did read about the vacations in Greece where she was happy to have a week just with the kids while he was off water-skiing, before the second week and forced socializing because everything had to go according to him. Reading between the lines she makes it CLEAR that he insists this "this is how things are done" while in her heart she knows otherwise. I think she completely subsumed her Jewish identity to his Greek one, no room for her to also contribute her culture and heritage (unless money flowing into his hands involved). I actually felt panic and anxiety reading the articles, he comes across as so smothering and insidiously abusive. A total gaslighter, e.g. making her feel there is something wrong with her for not thinking socializing until all hours with 5 little ones is so awesome. It goes along with a man who could actually suggest that he move in the mistress and mistress's child, with his wife soon to be ex-wife. He has ZERO empathy for her, zero empathy for her feelings. Terrible man and a true bully.