Well said. fD’s plan to move MT and her daughter in was over the top even from my own life experience but enough for me to relate and start paying attention. What I can’t relate whatsoever to is MT’s thinking. Let alone risks to her own daughter did she ever think about the other 5 kids?
Glad you are back! Missed you!
MT and the word “thinking” probably can’t be safely used in the same sentence based on her life history imo.
But, kudos on giving her the benefit of the doubt as I’m simply not willing to extend her that courtesy as I don’t think she deserves it based on her behaviour!
IMO she deserves no courtesy or consideration based on her life choices which have by all accounts been consistently deplorable and always seem to relate to money and not having to work.
MT seemed to think the answer to her personal desire to live an easy life was to blindly follow FD to CT. MT didn’t care about her daughter or even the 5 Dulos children and probably resented the time spent with and on them until she realized they were the ones with the money. JF was hated by MT because she was standing in the way with FD and taking all his money in the ongoing court battle with the divorce and custody. MT was seeing her life’s dream of being a lady of leisure go up in flames and the person responsible in her warped brain and her no doubt sick family was the mother of 5 children who was simply trying to bring up her children in the best way possible. MT even thought it was a good idea (her smart then atty stopped her) during her interrogation to bring up false information about JF gained from a sealed family court document as a rationalization for her doing what she did with FD! Morals? None. Ethics? Certainly not! MT is a street animal imo willing to do and say anything at any time to get what she wants and when she wants it!
This sorry case is tragedy on all sides and it was driven entirely imo by FD and MT greed and total self absorption and the classic desire of getting something for nothing!
The self absorption and pure greed of MT along with her absolute disregard of her own daughter and the 5 Dulos children imo alone should be punishable by life imprisonment but sadly being a self absorbed idiot with a child isn’t yet punishable by law in the US although irresponsible parenting imo could have been argued by the baby daddy imo but perhaps he was as irresponsible as MT? Idk? Not much info there but he seemed disconnected from what was going on imo and seemed to take no action to protect his daughter which imo was tragic.
My guess is MT saw in FD what she wanted to see and her entire family cheered her on as they are no different than she is imo. FD had surface and convenient charm, beautiful house and buckets of cash and in their book could take care of their irresponsible daughter and keep her out of trouble! I’m sure mama and papi Troconis loved the idea of FD, up until the nanosecond where they realized they had been duped. Idiots had been duped by their own greed and inability to look beneath the surface of FD. Their bad because the family is back to having to clean up MT messes and god knows that this mess has cost the family a pretty penny and probably all of Mama troconis ill gotten gains from her Medicare fraud! MT is unemployable so most likely will have to he supported by her family for the rest of her life unless or until she finds another mark or sugar daddy imo or perhaps becomes the responibility of the state of CT for the next 20++ years!
It’s always amusing to replay the MT answer about what she was doing with FD on Albany Ave. She claims she didn’t realize anything was wrong because they had thrown out trash illegally before. It boggles the mind that she didn’t or wouldn’t see what the simple act of illegal trash tossing was saying about who FD was! MT didn’t see any of it because she was just as morally bankrupt as FD and taking the easy way out was always the best way! No accountability and no consequences for MT ever as life was simply what you could get away with or pay your way out of! There they were on Albany avenue saving a few bucks on trash disposal but their next stop was going to Starbucks for $6 lattes! tDelusion and insanity imo but both parties were the mirror image of the other; morally bankrupt.
It’s one thing imo to make deplorable life choices if you are single. But, it’s another thing entirely to imo to drag an innocent 10 year old daughter along for the joyride with you. What kind of messages to said daughter were delivered at an impressionable age when Mom thought it was a good idea to make a career move into being the mistress of a married man with 5 children? Poor innocent child and I find her yet another innocent victim at the hands of FD and MT.
I don’t think a day passes when I don’t wish that MT daughter had been removed from her derelict care by CPS. I do very much wonder where the entire Troconis crew was as they watched the 10 year old being moved to CT? Mama Troconis as a formerly licensed Counselor of unknown competency thinking it was good for the daughter? Nope, the family knew it was bad for the daughter but they like MT were seduced by the promises and lies of a classic narc and their own worship of the God of easy $$$ to the extent they did nothing to protect MT 10 year old daughter. Imo the family was complicit in everything that has happened in this case. I don’t see MT as being any different from any member of her family as she had their complete support every step of the move from
FL to CT.
MT imo has the emotional and mental depth of a raindrop combined with a basic absence of ethics and morals. This makes MT a dangerous character as there is no moral fiber in her being. MT cares about her creature comforts and lifestyle and imo didn’t give a rats *advertiser censored* about the impact of picking her 10 year old daughter up and moving her to CT where she would see her mother be the public mistress of a married father of 5. It boggles my very simple mind that any single mother would think this is a good choice either for themselves or their impressionable daughter.
Thing is though that MT family supported and fostered the relationship with FD from Day 1 given the pictures then available on social media from the FL days where the affair was conducted in plain sight. The affair went on out in the open for I believe 2 years with the full support of the Troconis family who imo like their fallen daughter have the collective depth of a raindrop and the moral and ethical standards of a venomous snake.
I’m laughing as I type this out as I’ve been rehashing the MT and FD early days in FL. FD duped MT and her entire soulless and money worshiping family into thinking he had money and a future for her in CT. As we all know, FD had nothing to offer except Farber money and he had no interest in working hard and was similar to MT in that he wanted the lifestyle of wealth with none of the involved work to achieve it. Difference between FD and MT was that had he wanted to work that FD could have done so but he saw the early hard grind on Wall Street and so changed his focus to grifting off of the trusting Farber family imo.
Narcs such as FD as you well know can be persuasive manipulators and in this regard my bet is that FD was a solid mid level narc. FD had fooled JF for years and had successfully even gotten a good deal of money from the father of JF. I don’t for a second believe GF was ever fooled but not much public info is available on this other than that she did sue FD and pushed him to the mat legally in court courtesy of the brilliant Atty Weinstein!
The final irony in this tragedy was the period when MT was told to not have contact with FD by the Court and she did it anyway and did it consistently. FD being the narc he was most likely wanted to continue to control MT and what she knew and also simply wanted sex. The joke was on MT though that cheaters are always going to cheat (she knew this and this was why she watched him like a hawk!) and FD was already I believe cheating then with Anna Curry who had the thing MT Didnt have which was money that he desperately needed at the time to try and save his crumbling universe.
Stories of greed driven behaviour rarely end well and imo this tragedy on the most basic level revolves around the great greed of both MT and FD. What is tragic though is the impact on the victim children in this case as they deserved none of the profound selfishness of the parents that were supposed to protect them.
