kaen
Trying to be a good human.
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If any of that stuff she wrote about is even true? Or was it another way to get the attention she seems to so badly crave? If she had a crappy upbringing wouldn't that make her more empathetic to her own babies? And she could of always picked up the phone and got help for her mental state.
Well she sure has attention now, but in a way that should haunt her forever if she even has a conscience?
When as adults we make choices we have to own those choices and be accountable for them and learn from them, and stop blaming everyone else for our choices. The woman is what, 32 years old? She certainly isn't an irresponsible teenager that's for sure. She will now have to own her actions.
Let me preface this by stating that if she harmed or failed to protect her child she is the lowest of the low. She wrote that poem before she had the last two kids. One would think that her experiences would cause her to do better. Her writing demonstrates that she had not healed or done better because she is so focused on her mother's actions rather than raising the bar or discussing what she would/could do. I am not sure she is mentally ill but she is so damaged as evidenced statements made about her child-- ones that don't come from a loving parent. For her other child's sake, I am grateful that she placed him/her in an adoptive home.
There seems to be an increasing trend of harming a child and hiding them so you won't face the consequences. I am anti many technological advances but I am starting to think about the beauty of microchipping and GPS chipping might hold for these abused and killed children. Some of these awful people may never be held accountable due to lack of a body. That said, I am glad they found Chance.