First, thank you, thank you AbuDrake for coming here and providing an insight in to Taylor. Personal insight is very important in any investigation (as you well know).
I have a few questions for you AbuDrake.
World Series of Poker? She played in 2007, but hasn't mentioned it since. She had the opportunity to go anywhere in the world during the course of our marriage - she was rarely working and we were doing quite well financially. She never mentioned wanting to go anywhere - but did occasionally reference her NYC-born father's dream of making enough money to retire to "Cahsta Reeka." I've done some thinking on that possibility, and don't think it's realistic. She's never traveled abroad, has no language capability or inclination towards foreign cultures, has no friends down there, and isn't habituated to making trips to unfamiliar places.
I am assuming that if she traveled somewhere they would be able to track her movements on a plane, train, or bus....
Nope, wrong case. We met after I graduated college, before I started my service.
Nobody that I can think of has a long-term relationship with Taylor enough to want to harm her. Self harm is unlikely too...that's for people find fault with themselves and don't think there's hope for the future. She thinks she's the victim of XYZ and that some scheme will get her revenge...not a suicide profile in my layman's opinion. I do think she'll resurface one day soon. My best bet is that she's trying to figure out how to do so now...but doesn't know what story to tell. Perhaps she wanted to wait for this all to blow over, but it's just getting worse for her. A friend who knew her well back in the day said "Maybe she doesn't know how to come back. What would you say to everyone if you were her in this situation?" But - I could be wrong, and she could genuinely be in trouble. That's why I'm here - maybe I can help someone figure out where she is in case she needs help?
Drake is handling things quite well. His world is about having fun with his friends, playing sports and going to school...he wasn't too interested when I told him that nobody has heard from her a while and we don't know where she is. He is the most resilient kid I've ever met. Ever seen those National Geographic photos of kids playing in squalor, oblivious to the rubble and misery around them? That's Drake. He just wants to be happy and focus on good stuff in life. I think we could all take a lesson from the young man, actually. (And the fact that we live in a pretty idyllic neighborhood helps out - he's totally insulated from all of this).
You have said that self harm is unlikely. In reading this thread, before getting to this quote, self-harm was on my mind. I am wondering about this for a couple of reasons. If she was accustomed to getting away with deception, maybe her "house of cards" was coming down. Maybe she felt cornered and didn't know a way out. I know of many narcissists that I would have never dreamed that they would harm themselves (because they love themselves too much), but they did. Taking a quick breath, is there any way that the pressure was becoming too much? Is there any chance that this could be a possibility.
I am concerned about a romantic love triangle. The areas of concern for harm usually come from
a) money
b) romance
c) personal revenge
d) stranger danger
I find the area of money on her person to be especially concerning. If she thought she met a "new" friend, she could have been a target. Some money missing does also concern me. If police are considering her disappearance voluntary, they may be missing an opportunity to find clues in the missing money. The new romance, maybe an even newer romance, or someone promising to help her get out of paying you...
If she is off the grid, she may just be holing up somewhere with someone new. She could hide for a long time with that amount of cash. However, she may eventually come out of hiding if she cannot keep a long-term commitment with someone else.
I appreciate your openness and candor. I do ask, have the police "investigated" you for involvement in her disappearance?
Someone mentioned that she was seen with Drake recently. When did he return to you?
A comment by Nancy was peculiar to me. She basically said
she didn't
think this was in character for Taylor. I would think a mom - even an adoptive one - would say emphatically, "THIS IS
NOT in her character to be out of touch with me... her son... her loved ones... I found it a little odd. Has she been out of touch with her mom lately?
I am also concerned about mental stability. When did it show up in her other family member? Could she have been declining due to a mental illness not yet admitted?