GUILTY FL - Tricia Todd, 30, Hobe Sound, 27 April 2016 #1

[theoldbray]

No, she is talking about a spiritual implication in regards to her ex-husband. He did not actually sleep with a mother & daughter, and she wasn't saying that. (Just clarifying because how she talked was confusing to the "naked eye".)

Read the recent entry on her blog about someone sleeping with mother and daughter. From her past? Maybe. From more recent times? Maybe. Someone from her work? Maybe. Someone she knew more closely. maybe. Worth killing over? Maybe.

 

[heartgoesout]

Thank you for sticking up for your friend. Please know we are here to figure out were she is and what happened to her. We do care. Many of us come here with similar stories.

 

[theoldbray]

Her words are very clear to those to whom they are intended --- I know they seem cryptic. Her last post is to 4 different people - none of them are SW. Her relationships with Scorpios, although in this excerpt seems troubling, it isn't. Pieces & Scorps are one of the best pairs in the zodiac --- she was over the moon when she learned that F would be a Scorpio. Her words about that are to me & a former lover of hers.

She is referencing a Jewish ritual when speaking about entering the pool. She was going through a process in her spiritual life - one of cleansing from her old life for the new one, with the husband she desired. It's not about drowning at all, or baptism.

Hello all.. this is my first post, but, I was compelled to join while following the Missy Bevers threads and this one.
Some interesting things I have picked up on, and I am not sure they have been discussed (or need to be... feel free to let me know!)
* TT's Livejournal is (as mentioned) quite rambling for the most part. And, we know she mentioned mental illness there. She also mentions, many times, her distrust of professionals, especially doctors and medicine. I find this odd coming from a nurse. Examples (I will find the links if needed): She takes F to a pediatrician for thrush when she was a baby... for meds. But goes on to say that the woman is not an actual Ped, but a NP, and a bad one who obviously has never treated a patient ever (paraphrasing). She also seemed very unhappy with any OBGYN she met with while pregnant, and other posts as well. To me, it seems totally in her MO to bring her daughter to the ER and leave without being seen.
* She was interested in astrology and referenced it many times... then gave it up... until her last post when she references a female... scorpio. her daughter F is a scorpio (see comments on post from 7/31/13). I found this interesting: "This painful love affair. It's a pisces and scorpio thing. Are you happy? I said it. This is how it's been with * for all these years.. I've never had a deep blue love with a true scorpio that didn't feel this way."

* She references "obeying" in many posts... always, it seems, in reference to god. In the last post, she seems to be directing her words to either SW or F. That's my take.

So, IMHO, I think she has gone voluntarily... either to a cult/religious place, or, she has harmed herself (has PPD been discussed????) . "As soon as I enter the pool down the steps, the proper way, I'll reveal why I've been so paranoid, if you care to know." - seems to me to either reference baptism or drowning.

 

[Justice2016]

Secrets.

Note on her blog she writes she cannot tell some secret that is troubling her because it is so bad.

What could be so shameful that it could not be said publicly? Could it be pedophilia?

And did that secret involve the killer who wished to stop her disclosing it.

More murders could be prevented if people disclosed secrets they are keeping they could be killed over.

 

[turanna25]

Her words are very clear to those to whom they are intended --- I know they seem cryptic. Her last post is to 4 different people - none of them are SW. Her relationships with Scorpios, although in this excerpt seems troubling, it isn't. Pieces & Scorps are one of the best pairs in the zodiac --- she was over the moon when she learned that F would be a Scorpio. Her words about that are to me & a former lover of hers.

She is referencing a Jewish ritual when speaking about entering the pool. She was going through a process in her spiritual life - one of cleansing from her old life for the new one, with the husband she desired. It's not about drowning at all, or baptism.

Thank you for clarifying! And welcome to websleuths. I'm very sorry to hear about your close friend. I pray for her and her family and friends daily and I also participated in the searches since I'm local. I really do appreciate you becoming a member on this site and shedding some light on her LJ entries for us. Like heartgoesout has stated, we really do care and just want to find her and find out what happened to her.

raying:

 

[theoldbray]

<3 She was / is a light like no other human has ever been. They ALWAYS say that about dead & missing people, don't they?

Thank you for your kind words & for helping to search!

Thank you for clarifying! And welcome to websleuths. I'm very sorry to hear about your close friend. I pray for her and her family and friends daily and I also participated in the searches since I'm local. I really do appreciate you becoming a member on this site and shedding some light on her LJ entries for us. Like heartgoesout has stated, we really do care and just want to find her and find out what happened to her.

raying:

 

[turanna25]

<3 She was / is a light like no other human has ever been. They ALWAYS say that about dead & missing people, don't they?

Thank you for your kind words & for helping to search!

Yes they do! Tricia exuded/es a light and love like no other. Its seen in everything and everyone she has touched in her life.

 

[heartgoesout]

Is there anything you can tell us that we can help with. As you've seen, we've got some good researchers here. ; )
We want to help!

 

[heartgoesout]

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

 

[Justice2016]

I think Justice is saying someone who is a pedophile could have harmed Tricia to keep her quiet.

Thanks PerfectingPink. You are correct.

 

[theoldbray]

Thank you. It's the light that has disappeared that is so upsetting. You just can't describe her light.

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

 

[heartgoesout]

I have not read her journal. Only the last few posts that I found poetic. I haven't dug deep enough to even find the zodiac photography. I was curious tonight and asked because I wanted to see if the zodiac interest was normal or odd. Like I said I was trying to see where others were so confident of mental illness that I just wasnt seeing.

 

[Justice2016]

I have not read her journal. Only the last few posts that I found poetic. I haven't dug deep enough to even find the zodiac photography. I was curious tonight and asked because I wanted to see if the zodiac interest was normal or odd. Like I said I was trying to see where others were so confident of mental illness that I just wasnt seeing.

Unfortunately with NPD or any other personality disorder, they can't do their thing unless their partner allows it. No personality disordered person is able to continue their game unless their partner's boundaries are very low/unhealthy.

So to start with their partner must be codependent. Coming from an abusive childhood TT was set up to be codependent.

Then... imagine spending 10 years with an NPD. Acclimatising yourself to that experience is Stockholm Syndrome (scientists have shown there's a chemical transference so dependency/the attachment bond becomes physical not just psychological). It's also a case in which you can become infected/affected. The real danger is it can induce a disorder in the partner simply because to survive they have to start to think differently.

TT herself writes on her blog that she has personality disorders. BPD research shows that child abuse whether emotional, mental or physical is a leading trait in BPD. Not always, but common. BPD is nothing more sinister than "I hate you don't leave me". NPD is more dangerous.

A simple example: in alcoholism they always say the alcoholic's family end up sicker than they are due to living with the alcoholic's behaviour for years.

 

[bessie]

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[theoldbray]

I sent in my info, and am waiting for verification just so yall know.

 

[turanna25]

Thank you, theoldbray!! Didn't even dawn on me to suggest you get verified. Sorry!

 

[Bruins919]

On a personal note I am glad to see that some of my interpretation of the last post was correct. I knew she was speaking to this friend who was a female and I knew what the zodiac photography was connected to, makes me feel less crazy as I completely engulfed myself in this case at the beginning. Interesting that old bray is here so welcome oldbray. Looking forward to seeing what you can bring to the table as far as : did you actually speak to Tricia the last week of her sighting or was blogging / writing your form of communication?

 

[CD82]

So you're saying that IF he asked for leave to be with their, his child because her mother, his ex wife is missing he would be denied? I'm going to contact some military friends. I'm betting they will be more ashamed the little girls father isn't there for her.

Catching up on things and wanted to comment on this.

I was in the Marine Corps for 5 years. In that 5 years, I had a daughter. They made me sign paperwork that stated my military duties will not be compromised by the fact that I have a child, and if I get deployed I would need a plan for someone to care for my daughter. It's called a Family Readiness Plan.

Also while I was in, a single mother had gotten orders to deploy and she refused to go. The military told her that if she couldn't find a place for her child so she can deploy, they would place the child in foster care. Google it, it really happened.

This guy's command doesn't care what's going on in FL. This guy signed a contract, and the military requires you to uphold that contract. They don't care if his ex-wife is missing. Someone is able to care for the child so he can report for duty. End of story. There is no gray area with the military.

 

[CD82]

Catching up on things and wanted to comment on this.

I was in the Marine Corps for 5 years. In that 5 years, I had a daughter. They made me sign paperwork that stated my military duties will not be compromised by the fact that I have a child, and if I get deployed I would need a plan for someone to care for my daughter. It's called a Family Readiness Plan.

Also while I was in, a single mother had gotten orders to deploy and she refused to go. The Marine Corps told her that if she couldn't find a place for her child so she can deploy, they would place the child in foster care. Google it, it really happened.

This guy's command doesn't care what's going on in FL. This guy signed a contract, and the military requires you to uphold that contract. They don't care if his ex-wife is missing. Someone is able to care for the child so he can report for duty. End of story. There is no gray area with the military.

Here you go:

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/17/us/17soldier.html?_r=0

From the article:

The woman, Specialist Alexis Hutchinson, 21, said she had no choice but to refuse deployment orders because the only relative who could care for her 10-month-old son, her mother, was overwhelmed by the task and already caring for three other relatives with health problems.

Her civilian lawyer, Rai Sue Sussman, said one of Specialist Hutchinson&#8217;s superiors told her she would have to go anyway and put the child in foster care.

 

[JBeach772]

On a personal note I am glad to see that some of my interpretation of the last post was correct. I knew she was speaking to this friend who was a female and I knew what the zodiac photography was connected to, makes me feel less crazy as I completely engulfed myself in this case at the beginning. Interesting that old bray is here so welcome oldbray. Looking forward to seeing what you can bring to the table as far as : did you actually speak to Tricia the last week of her sighting or was blogging / writing your form of communication?

Yes, there was a Pinterest out there with zodiac series as an album. But looks like it's been deleted now. Not sure why. That's how I pieced the LJ journal and zodiac photographer together. Glad to hear someone else made the connection.