Cindy especially infuriates everyone, but Lee takes the cake, too, as well as George for not standing up for Caylee and for what's right. Cindy has alienated nearly everyone since Casey was arrested. Her third 911 call was probably the most honest she's ever been. Then she did an about face, took up for Casey at every turn, and shunned, or worse, shoved well-meaning souls away, the people who wanted to often sympathy, support, and love. If we couldn't agree with Cindy, then she'd have none of it. She turned to charlatans, crooks, the sleeze of the earth simply because they pretended to believe Cindy's BS, "Caylee is alive, Casey is a good mother, credible tips are pouring in all the time". Never mind those "tips" were lies, coming from Cindy's friends, or worse, tricksters. If we weren't on Casey's/Cindy's side, we were wrong and she wanted nothing to do with any of us.
We saw the way she treated Tim M (TES) and Leonard. They were there to find the baby, and since they weren't at the malls looking for a living Caylee, they were wrong and useless to the Queen of Spin.
As for Lee, he alienates by being a rotten lowlife. How many times have we seen him discard gifts, stuffed animals, and now little memorials? I won't even bring up the mean way he treated the quiet lady and her even quieter dog.
The sad part is they could have found solace in all the love, sympathy, empathy, compassion, and caring all we total strangers we willing to give the grieving grandparents. Instead, they threw it out the window and chose to push each of us off the face of the planet.