I can see going either way being normal depending on the person... either wanting to keep it all forever and never letting go, like people who keep their lost child's bedroom as it was when they went missing or died, forever ... or immediately wanting it all gone because the reminders are too painful and you don't want to see it sitting there not played with. I wouldn't personally rush to judge her giving away the toys on that alone. But we'll see how this all shakes out. It's an awful tragedy.
It is an awful tragedy. But it just surprises me a little bit that she would have even been allowed to give things away so soon because as of yesterday this home was evidently still considered a crime scene - authorities were back processing the home for fingerprints, etc. AFTER the mom was donating toys. But, maybe communication between the mom and LE did not take place. I certainly agree that people grieve in different ways. One concern would be preservation of anything of evidentiary value that could have been in the home, since that's reportedly where she was abducted from.