Dogface
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I said I wasn't going to read this thread anymore, but as heavy as my heart is, I can't stop thinking about this case. With that said I haven't read into great detail all the new posts, simply because I can't bring myself to. But I do have a little ranting I have to get off my chest.
I drive a car this is similar in size to his, and even my daughters infant car seat was impossible to miss. When she was rear facing the driver seat wouldn't even go back far enough for my hubby to drive. The front facing car seat has fixed that issue, but it's even larger and impossible to miss. That makes it impossible for me to believe he wouldn't have seen the car seat, and makes me question why he would have switched him to that car seat in the first place. Is it known if this car has a rear view camera?
And regardless if this was an accident or not, which I don't believe at all, it is still murder. I cried once because I left a bag of crickets in my car for my chameleon while I went to the gym, with the windows cracked, and when I came out they were literally melted. I still feel bad that those crickets were simply wasted, even though they were going to be food anyway. If, god forbid, I ever made a mistake this grand, I would be asking for the DP. I wouldn't want to live.
And as far as LH talking about future kids?!?! WT-holy-f?!?! That is not normal. And I don't care for the excuses of how people grieve differently.
If my hubby did this I would probably kill him! Divorce papers would already have been served. I know accidents happen. But leaving your child to die is more than an accident. It is gross negligence. It is a complete failure as a parent.
I felt some sympathy for the woman who went to a job interview and left her kids in the car, because at least she was trying to do something to better her life and that of her kids. It still was poor decision to make and she is fortunate that nothing happened. But what was this idiot doing? Was he so distracted by the idea of taking penis pics to text that he forgot his baby?
And as I think about it, perhaps he thought someone would discover this at work, he knew the timeframe it would take for a child to die in a car, so he possibly thought that by being one of the last ones in, that by lunch when people would be going to their cars that it wouldn't matter if he was discovered.
I just have zero sympathy, accident or planned. To me, even a kid that drowns at a public pool is more understandable, there are many distractions in those situations. But buckling your child in a care and driving for a minute and trying to say you forgot them is ridiculous.
Perhaps day cares will implement a system now of contacting parents who do not drop their kids off like they usually do.
/end rant
I drive a car this is similar in size to his, and even my daughters infant car seat was impossible to miss. When she was rear facing the driver seat wouldn't even go back far enough for my hubby to drive. The front facing car seat has fixed that issue, but it's even larger and impossible to miss. That makes it impossible for me to believe he wouldn't have seen the car seat, and makes me question why he would have switched him to that car seat in the first place. Is it known if this car has a rear view camera?
And regardless if this was an accident or not, which I don't believe at all, it is still murder. I cried once because I left a bag of crickets in my car for my chameleon while I went to the gym, with the windows cracked, and when I came out they were literally melted. I still feel bad that those crickets were simply wasted, even though they were going to be food anyway. If, god forbid, I ever made a mistake this grand, I would be asking for the DP. I wouldn't want to live.
And as far as LH talking about future kids?!?! WT-holy-f?!?! That is not normal. And I don't care for the excuses of how people grieve differently.
If my hubby did this I would probably kill him! Divorce papers would already have been served. I know accidents happen. But leaving your child to die is more than an accident. It is gross negligence. It is a complete failure as a parent.
I felt some sympathy for the woman who went to a job interview and left her kids in the car, because at least she was trying to do something to better her life and that of her kids. It still was poor decision to make and she is fortunate that nothing happened. But what was this idiot doing? Was he so distracted by the idea of taking penis pics to text that he forgot his baby?
And as I think about it, perhaps he thought someone would discover this at work, he knew the timeframe it would take for a child to die in a car, so he possibly thought that by being one of the last ones in, that by lunch when people would be going to their cars that it wouldn't matter if he was discovered.
I just have zero sympathy, accident or planned. To me, even a kid that drowns at a public pool is more understandable, there are many distractions in those situations. But buckling your child in a care and driving for a minute and trying to say you forgot them is ridiculous.
Perhaps day cares will implement a system now of contacting parents who do not drop their kids off like they usually do.
/end rant