MistyWaters
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If you follow that post back to its origin, I was saying that DM's behavior was absolutely not normal, in that he did NOT call 911, and that he did not touch the body, and as a layman unfamiliar with finding dead bodies in his home (presumably at least???), a normal reaction would be to want to make darned sure that his dad was in fact dead, that he couldn't possibly be saved, but instead he called his mom who lived a distance away, and had HER make the call, and even then, instead of her making the call immediately so as to save WM if there was any possible chance, or even instead of her telling DM to make the call, she drove there to see for herself (ie good thing the guy was already dead, huh?). Had DM made the call himself, I was saying that the operator/dispatcher would have told him to do certain things to ENSURE the guy was dead.. but someone disagreed.. so I was responding to that.
I think I just beat sillybilly's longest sentence ever rating??
Thanks for the excellent summary. My question would be, how is “normal” determined?
Because the part I get lost on, in the ordinary world, I see absolutely nothing wrong for an adult child who goes to a parent’s home and is unexpectedly confronted with the shock of finding their loved one obviously dead, especially in a case of presumed natural death or suicide, to respond by immediately calling a spouse, mother, sibling, etc for moral support. Then waiting a short time for that person to arrive before calling 911 rather than being alone, considering 911s response time can be in a matter of a few minutes.
I don’t see that as suspicious behaviour in itself as every person reacts in different ways, especially those who are not trained to act rationally when faced with the death. Nor was there trial testimony indicating DM’s behaviour to be highly uncommon, let alone oddly unusual....because possibly there’s no normal way that people cope with death.
In this particular case, it certainly could be said DM was faking the way he responded, but the same could also be said if he’d called 911 immediately and was standing all alone, loudly wailing at the front of the driveway in a frenzied panic, waiting to wave down the first responders as they arrived.
I think the missing piece is the Crown chose not to call MB as a witness, therefore we also have no idea what transpired between them. I don’t even recall hearing the audio of her 911 call. Regardless of personal opinions about MB, she may have insisted that he wait for her so she be there for her son....that’s the sort of thing a loving mother might do.