razzledazzle
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Can we talk for a minute about religious-ness? Dunno, this may be particular to Baptists, or Southern Baptists, but in my mind (knowing what it's like to be raised up as Southern Baptist in the 50s) it may have more bearing on JM's actions than we've realized up to this point.
If some of these characteristics we've discussed are true, the ways in which he resembles other SKs, and then the ways that make his family think he's a "good boy," and the way he knows how to be bumbling and friendly to people, he has got to be the most conflicted, confused person who ever lived. Does he have Dissociative Identity Disorder?
I went back and looked and the Downtown Mall video again a couple days ago. He does not hesitate for an instant, once he spots HG, he finds the nearest spot he can to turn around and follow her without being so obvious that everyone on the Mall would have noticed it. It's like he has a switch that flipped, and he went from Mode 1 to Mode 2 instantly. Or maybe he was already in Mode 2, seeing as how he'd been manhandling people all evening, feeling up the women and making sure the men knew how quickly he could put them in their places. Maybe the switch flipped earlier in the day.
So he's all these different characters, imo. He's the good boy, he's a palsy fisherman, he's someone most people in the community wouldn't think twice about, and certainly wouldn't be scared of, he's just sort of there and comfy and helpful. He's also the guy who jumped out of his car and punched a guy in the face. Then he's the guy who felt bad about it almost immediately, and fell over his own feet apologizing and trying to make it right.
Ok, so how to make it right? He offered to take the guy to the hospital, right? He paid the medical bills, right? He actually did take action, or offered to take action, to make it right. Even if he was only protecting himself, there's something in his mind that realized he'd just done something he shouldn't have done, and he needed to make it right.
The question is to me: how much of this was conscience? Does he actually HAVE a conscience? Once the switch flips off again, I bet he does, but it more often than not gets overridden by his instinct for self-preservation.
How do you make it right when you've just beaten a woman to death? What does your raised-in-country-church conscience do to you then?
A rural cemetery would be an excellent place, not to DUMP a body, but to lay a body to rest.
All moo, of course.
Feedback?
Most definitely possible... I dated guy for a short while that was one smooth talker. On our first date, because we did not have mutual friends and I used to work for a retired LE who taught me plenty, I asked him straight up 1) Have you ever hit a woman? no 2) Do you do drugs? no, but I drink socially
3) Do you have a criminal record? yes, when I was 20 I was involved in a strong armed robbery and did 22 months in prison. (He was 44 at the time of our date). I said now whoa that's a red flag and was about to cut our date short. He explained that he was not the same person, was honest when I asked, blah blah.. explained the circumstances and convinced me that he had done his time and had no other offences, and it had been 22 years ago. I saw him off and on for a few months after doing a background check that backed up his story. I'm all for second chances and not very judgmental. But then there would be times that he referred to himself in the third person, he would sometimes act like a totally different person, and when questioned would say "That wasn't Mike, you know that's not me". He would refer to prison as the "bad place that the other Mike went". He even "joked" about his "other" personalities. I found that he only had one real friend, an older man that was very supportive and seemed to check up on him, and then his Mom whom he seemed to love dearly. I became concerned and slowly began to be unavailable until the relationship kind of fizzled out.
So my point is that I totally agree with you..... My very good-looking, smooth talking, protective, church going, flower sending, fill up my car with gas every Sunday, fella definitely had some undiagnosed issues.