Lulu14
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Lulu, I'm not sure what you're actually saying, re one parent working, etc...
But disdain of "all the mothers that use governmental help in such a manner" is offensive to me on several levels. Unless you mean, spending it on donuts (or drugs, alcohol, etc) and not the kids. Rather than just wailing on welfare mums in general.
I was trying to point out that it is unfair to me that I cannot get government help because I am married and because I work. I would like to stay home with my children. My husband would like to as well. We cannot, we are being punished because we are still a couple. How about the chances my kids should have? Why should they go to daycare, while I go work so that another woman can stay at home with her kids without putting in any effort?
The way I see it, you have a child, you are responsible for it, not I. That is what child support is for.
The tax money that go to your child I would rather invest in MINE. Fair enough?