I agree. I have always told my daughter (17 now) that if she is going to die, may as well be by the gun the perp is holding on her outside of the car, because once she gets IN the car, her death will not be as clean as a gunshot wound and likely will involve horrendous acts first. Nice conversation to have, right?
BBM - no, but a smart one I think. I think it would be incredibly hard to do just because you'd be so shocked and panicked, but I think the message is really important. Don't EVER get in the vehicle if you can help it.