Good point
it seems we can't take anything as "fact" at this point. Nothing makes sense.
I just want to know that wherever they lived with little Deorr was searched. I want to know if it was clean? Were dirty diapers everywhere? What were his sleeping quarters like? The police would be able to see if there were previous signs of neglect. Unless a parent or grandparent had the chance to get in there and clean up first.
Also, if anything was pre planned there would be evidence. Be it a pre-planned camping trip, or a pre-planned "accident", you would think there would be evidence there. I know when we pack for a camping trip, there would be piles of stuff in my living room, stuff I decided we didn't need to take and just left to put away upon our return. Was there evidence of Thorough planning and packing? With my two and a half year old I would have to pack a big bag of Toys and books, I would need lots of extra clothes for her, diapers, food, bottles, etc.
Sorry, I know this has been covered and we all basically agree nothing makes sense. I know the police can't be transparent with us, especially while building a case.... But this curiosity is hard to deal with. All I can say is that if my child: was abducted, wandered off, went missing.... I would be incredibly forthcoming and transparent. I would make sure everything added up. I can't judge how they reacted and their emotions because everyone reacts differently, but now, 7 months later... This would be my life. This would Be all consuming. Not sharing a couple posts on my FB a few times a month. People would be so sick of my face and my tears on the news. They have been acting like suspects since long before they were named as such. Innocent parents don't care about the accusations, they stay out there and keep the story going in the media. (The McCanns, The Smarts...)