I am trying hard to catch up from being two threads behind, and wanted to read everything so I don't repeat others' thoughts.
My mind is blown by so many things.... I will try to be brief.
These are my wth moments and thoughts and some involve 'power and control':
-I am in awe that the amazing people of Delphi who knew about the search of RA's home a week before his arrest didn't leak a drop of info to infest the social media rumor mill
-there is an actual picture of him with sketch #2 in the background posted on social media and its one of the only pictures where he seems to be smiling!
-his daughter posed for a picture on the bridge that was posted on social media after the murders - I feel so awful for her! I want to know who took the picture!!
-he actally assisted Becky with pulling photos off her phone and gave them to her free? Sick monster likely enjoyed the feeling of power he had in those moments and it makes me SO ANGRY!
-He initiated multiple conversations with people about the murders. Likely in an attempt to find out what others knew (local gossip) about the crimes. I wonder if he fed others with misinformation?
-wondering if 'small man syndrome' was at all a factor in these murders. "a condition where a man feels inadequate because of his short height and may try to overcompensate it with overly aggressive behaviour." I am not saying it was, just really wondering if he ever displayed any type of aggressive behaviour in the past that appeared to be triggered by feeling inadequate about his height.
-Becky and Mike Patty, Anna Williams and Kelsi German Siebert are all true class acts as they each navigate what should be private moments with feelings of joy, justice, bitterness, anger, relief, silence, etc. in a public setting.
I am in awe of their courage and unwavering faith.
It emotionally overwhelmed me when Becky responded to the reporter's question;
"What keeps you hopeful?"
Becky was clearly distraught and said, "If it were your child, would you have an option not to be hopeful? That's why we're hopeful."
-On Wednesday, October 26th 2022 Delphi's BG was finally arrested. Richard Matthew Allen was a face I had never seen on the body of a person who lived in all of our nightmares.
I hope he never sleeps again.
JMO